"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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STR8UP revealed.......PICS.....limited time only

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Took a bunch of pics at the party the other night and I was browsing through my photobucket as i was uploading them, and I thought "what the hell". why don't I share them with my friends at sosuave. I don't normally do this kind of thing, but after Rollo posted the pic of him and his new car the other day and the world didn't implode I figure no harm can come of it so why not?

This is for a limited time only. My birthday/ Halloween celebration is this coming weekend so I might upload some more, but the password is gonna be changed soon after that so for those of you who are interested click on this link:

http://s46.photobucket.com/albums/f141/Disnomyyob/

temporary password: DonJuan (I think it's case sensitive)

So here ya go. Lots of pics. Some of my neices and nephews and family, some of me and my buds, some travel pics and lots of pics my lady friends/fukk buddies/STR's/etc. Oh yea, and a couple of pics of some asian chick who was flashing her crotch at one of my parties :rockon:

Oh, and pay close attention to the third to the last pic. Some dude was pulling up this chicks shirt and groping her t!ts right there in the bar, and my friends captured the moment (photoshopped for maximum effect). CLASSIC!

Yes, many of them have been the subjects of my posts. No, I am not revealing who is who :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OK I'm a little disappointed. I was expecting you to look like Brad Pitt :D .

There's some pretty goodlooking ladies in there. I thought the asian girl flashing her panties had a pretty good bod.
 

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ketostix said:
OK I'm a little disappointed. I was expecting you to look like Brad Pitt :D .
O_O

Yeah I thought you were going to look like a huge supermodel stud, man! HAHAHA

Anyone else revealing pictures? I might.
 

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ketostix said:
OK I'm a little disappointed. I was expecting you to look like Brad Pitt :D .

There's some pretty goodlooking ladies in there. I thought the asian girl flashing her panties had a pretty good bod.
Haha, I'm not the best looking dude but I hold my own. The most important thing is that I don't think i look 36 (at least that's what they tell me :) ) It helps when courting the younger ladies :yes:

And yea, the asian chick was alright. That was the night I ended up with two chicks in my bed and one dude on the floor at the foot of the bed, unfortunately.

But maaaaan that asian chicks ass......
 

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You do look 20-something. Yeah that's what I call "Hot Asian". I have a little thing for that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ThunderMaverick said:
O_O

Yeah I thought you were going to look like a huge supermodel stud, man! HAHAHA

Anyone else revealing pictures? I might.
Where do you guys get that from? I never claimed to be a "10". I'm living proof that you can be 5'8" and convince random chicks to take pictures with you...haha

But yea, bring on the pics!
 

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ketostix said:
You do look 20-something. Yeah that's what I call "Hot Asian". I have a little thing for that.
You should see my ex g/f then! i would put up a pic of her but I lost hundreds of pics from a hard drive crash recently. And I destroyed the cd with the x rated pics of her on it. WHat the fukk was I thinking?
 

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Haha, you look exactly like a guy I went to high school with except you don't have his severe acne problem.

Ironically enough he too was quite a stud with the ladies...
 

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chic 1641 is the only really hot chic in all the pics. i'd bang the pudding out of her.

chic 1911 looks like she might be ok.

chic 1450 is hot but Trouble with a capital T - i'd bang her and then sleep with one eye open.

chic 1897 has huge gazongas, so id probably bang her also just cuz of that.

the rest of the chics don't float my boat.

as for you. you look like a good guy, lots of fun to hang out with kind of guy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Of course beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and some people are more photogenic than others (I am definitely NOT....I look better in person, lol) but the lookers in real life are:

064- young....pretty cute and a great personality once you get past her b!tch shield

3330- thats not a good pic of her

3247- has her moments

0433- is a model. cant show you the pic I took after that one, lol

3177- the one on the left....WOW. I don't know what she was doing with her hair and makeup that day but she's a knockout

1641- yea, she's lebanese, quite a looker. I'll admit i got shot down by that one. and that was when she was kinda chubby!

Photobucket is down, cant continue dammit. Time for bed anyway.....
 

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Come on Jokerr! What do you look like?!

Don't be shy men! Reveal yourselves.

I'd like to see what Rollo looks like. I'd love to see what his wife looks like! =D
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Come on Jokerr! What do you look like?!

Don't be shy men! Reveal yourselves.

I'd like to see what Rollo looks like. I'd love to see what his wife looks like! =D
Rollo has posted pics of himself and his wife

I think he kidna looks like an older version of "Chad" from the alltel commercials, haha
 

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Str8up, I gotta tell ya you don't look ANYTHING like how I would have pictured lol. Not that that is a bad or a good thing. And take this as a compliment ok? For your looks (not that you are ugly lol but you're not George Clooney, of course neither am I haha), you really do get a lot of play with some decent looking ladies...congrats! It really is amazing to me how we build up and picture people we meet over the net, only to find they are exactly the opposite 99% of the time. I will say that after seeing your pics, a lot of the things that you have posted about, and questions I had in my head about why you were posting these items...makes sense!!

As for the girls, most weren't really anything that I would probably go after, but not bad. Not bad.


Thanks for posting!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Str8up is pic 0904 your 37 year old AW? I think it just may be :). If so, forget about her.

I think the girl in the next to last pic with the green top on is really cute. Go after her.
 

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Thunder...nice pic! Can i have your hair? I''ll trade you my right bicep. :)

Here again, thunder...you don't look anything like I would have pictured! In fact the total opposite. I was picturing some older looking nerdy guy to be honest.

And thanks! And she is. She has a great job right and lives right by the beach in Santa Monica and she is by far the most mature person I know, but still so much fun. No psychoness with her, of course she's still a woman, and they ALL have their moments. haha

I like your look. You should have no problem with the ladies.
 
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Wow! Old nerdy looking guy? Why would you think that? Guess my post kinda paints that character. Heh.


I don't have much of a problem with the ladies, no. Meeting a quality one, yes!

I thought my ex was a nice catch (but uh, that's another story.)

Actually since I'm pretty outgoing and don't have a problem being myself around ANYONE, people get the idea that I'm snobby or conceited. Just the opposite. Most people don't like me when they first meet me. The ones who stick around tell me this. XD

And I know it's metro, but I pressed my hair. Hahaha. I'm actually half black half polish so i get this weird thing going on with my hair. It's naturally curly. I actually wanted to see how it looked pressed and it didn't look too bad. I don't press it anymore.

Dude you live in L.A. too? I live in the valley! We could actually have drinks! Like the other topic suggested!

Anyone else here live in L.A.?
 

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Hey thunder.

Yeah actually Santa Monica on third street right near the promenade. Well, let me preface that. I actually live in Michigan but am moving out to Santa Monica end of November. I am going out there the 29th of October, actually to Vegas first for a few days and then to Santa Monica until the 14th of November. Then flying back to MI and then back to Santa Monica until at least next summer.

We should get together for a drink for sure when I am out there. We like to hang out in Santa Monica or LA is cool too. We like Koi a lot.

Shoot me your # and we can all get together next week. BTW are you seeing anyone? Don't be afraid to bring her along :).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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