"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Storyes !

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lifeforce

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Sometimes I tell them... "Vet du vad som händer om man doppar en oxfilé i vatten? Det blir rostbiff :]"

Or I say... "Do you know what happened when Jesus and his apprentices had a swimming contest... Jesus won on walk over" :]

Or I just tell them some funny **** that has happened to me in my life... And then she laugh... I can tell you all about my life if you want and you can tell that to the girl you are talking to. :]
 

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My point is, don't can stuff up like that. You will never be able to keep that thing up for long, spontanity is great, this is what you have to work on.
 
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