"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Story of me kissing a girl at a club

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Kissing is one of the most powerful things you can do with a woman. Girls love to be kissed and we love to kiss them as well. There is an approach to kissing that worked for me. I’ll tell you an actual story of me kissing a girl inside a club and show you what I did to kiss her.

(I’m at this really hot club and I go in and start dancing doesn’t matter if Im not with a girl I know what I’m looking for.)

I see this really hott brunette later on in the night dancing by herself. So, I decide to talk to her …I whisper in her ear and say “hello” she looks back at me and smiles… I grab my hands around her waist and start dancing. About 2-3 minutes in I ask her what her name is and its Maria… I ask her if she speaks spanish then I threw her a few lines in espanol…

Me: Hey, I need a drink and you look like you could use one too…

Her: Let’s get a drink

Me: I grab her hand and whisper in her ear and tell her she smells good…

We go by the bar and were having shots and mixed drinks… I dance with her more then I kiss her ear… She doesn’t say anything so I blow in it… I’m getting her in the sexual mood… I kiss her cheek then she kisses my lips just like that… But your wondering how did you do that or will it work everytime..

When I first met her, I never showed complete interest. I kept it mysterious all night and I even kept the kissing mysterious as well… The key here is to take control of the situation by being direct with what you want. I wanted to make out with this girl so I put myself in the situation where I would be. Girls are sensitive to touch so the touch and whisper techniques I used are golden to making out with girls…
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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kissing hors at clubs isn't very hard. I'm fairly good at it as well, altho I've come to the conclusion that there just isn't much point in it. You just have to dance with them a bit first, and sometimes start with the neck instead of the lips.
 

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Obsidian said:
kissing hors at clubs isn't very hard. I'm fairly good at it as well, altho I've come to the conclusion that there just isn't much point in it. You just have to dance with them a bit first, and sometimes start with the neck instead of the lips.
Do you have a situation where you used the neck approach? I'm sure everyone would like to hear about it!
 

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lol, it was a while ago, and I don't remember all the specific details. I'm not real big on posting FRs unless I have to ask a specific question.

If you dress nicely and learn to be semi-smooth at kino, tho, just keep dancing with a chick for 2-3 songs and by then (if she hasn't bailed already) she's more than ready for you to kiss her. It works especially well if you spin her around a couple times. (Start out dancing face-to-face, then after a while, spin her around to grinding position where she's in front of you. Then spin her back a little while later and just go for the kiss.)

man, considering how little experience I have with seriously dating HBs, it's amazing how solid I am at this dancing/wh0ring nonsense...
 
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