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The point of this thread is for experienced members to explain this girl's actions and to determine whether I can have a casual relationship with her.

So, I have a foot fetish and occassionally seek girls on Craigslist for it. Two months ago, a 20 year old girl responded (who's now 21) and we met up at my place. First, she wasn't like other girls I met for services cause she never watched the clock and was very personal. We spent like three hours together the first time we met.

The next day, she added me as Facebook friends and texted me "I had a really nice time. Very relaxing".

I think two weeks later I was bored so I invited her over again. This time we did the same thing however a little while into it, she asked if I wanted to have sex. So we screw around and I mean it wasn't just boring missionary position. She did everything and was really passionate too. Anyway, what I paid her was chump change. Especially because she stayed for 5 hours.

Anyway, I got to know her and she's bi. She has a girlfriend in FL and lives in NJ (I'm in PA). She don't mess with guys too much (last serious guy was high school). Her family has money. Four luxury cars, two houses FL and NJ, and she goes to Fl every other week. She's also smart and I like her personality. I don't normally develop feelings for girls I pay for any type of sexual service, but this girl I like.

We met again a few days ago, fooled around but I wanted to test her so I said that I'll pay her later in the week (she never asks for money beforehand and one time almost left and forgot). Anyway, she was cool with that. Texted her last night and asked if I could bring it to her so she gave me her address. She text back and said "wanna watch a movie too?" I got over to her house late but we watched two movies. Some making out and petting but no sex cause she was really tired. During the course of the night, she said she'll come over and make me dinner today.

Anyway, I stayed for like 4 hours and then we talked. I basically said that I didn't want to pay to see her again. I wanna chill with her without the business end of it. She said that'd be cool but we probably won't have sex again, but a short while later said we'll just hang out and go with the flow, if we screw around then it happens. I gave her the cash and we kiss some more in my car (we were in her driveway). She kept saying we'll hang today and have dinner.

That's where I'm at now. If she stays true to her word and see me today, she does have some type of feelings for me. If she starts to ignore me, then I know she was an excellent salesman. Either way, I didn't throw away the business relationship. If I ever need some ass, I have a nice tight ***** to stick my **** into whenever cheaper than going out to a club drinking.

But I would like to have a casual relationship with her. Not just for sex, but I like being around her. After all what was said, what do you think of this girl and relationship?
 

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you know if she is taking money from you to have sex with you, she has at least 3-4 other guys who she is doing this with also. girl's gotta make a living somehow and your chump change won't do much.
 

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She doesn't need the money after seeing her house. Second, why keep seeing me if it's chump change? I appreciate your input though. But based on her interactions with me thus far, can I make this casual? And I don't think the other guys she's doing met her parents like ime in my awkward moment last night. They're real nice thou
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so she has a nice house? how do you think she's paying for it?

i have never paid for call girls or escorts but i have dated strippers.

and when strippers get drunk or after sex, they will talk their mouths off and brag about how many guys they are playing.

similar to strippers, escorts got to make their money somehow. once you are in the game of prostitution, you get disensitized.

essentially you are falling in love with a prostitute. that's worse than that Lil wayne song "fell in love with a stripper"... or whoever was the singer

have you never heard the saying: "you can't turn a wh0r3 into a house wife?"

I have no idea why you would want a relationship with an escort. I guess you must like the way she looks and got attached to her too strong because of that.

I say let the skank go be some other man's problem. I don't want to worry about her having another mans cvm on her mouth every time you kiss her.
 

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I see where you're coming from, but what's the difference between me wanting to see her every so often compared to a guy who has a FWB relationship with a chick who has a lot of sex? How is an escort different from girls who have sex with guys after the dude buys dinner drinks and whatever else?. And she lives with her parents. The car she has was bought by her dad.

I'm not looking to marry this girl. I want to her to just be a plate I'm spinning and only because I like her personality. **** what she does when she's not with me, but if we **** and hang out couple times a month, what's the big deal?

My original question is about a CASUAL relationship. When did I say housewife?
 

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sounds like a hooker is using you, better un-hook before you get hooked
 

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AlmostThere! said:
I see where you're coming from, but what's the difference between me wanting to see her every so often compared to a guy who has a FWB relationship with a chick who has a lot of sex? How is an escort different from girls who have sex with guys after the dude buys dinner drinks and whatever else?. And she lives with her parents. The car she has was bought by her dad.

I'm not looking to marry this girl. I want to her to just be a plate I'm spinning and only because I like her personality. **** what she does when she's not with me, but if we **** and hang out couple times a month, what's the big deal?

My original question is about a CASUAL relationship. When did I say housewife?
So she lives with her mom and dad and does prostitution on the side. Wow, that is even more ****ed up. So she doesn't even "NEED" the money.

She just sleeps around with guys for their money just for fun so she can buy herself nice clothes, nice shoes, nice purses.

That is retarded teenage behaviour. And you say you like her personality?? I highly doubt it.

The fact that this girl is charging for sex must mean she is at least cute and you get high on the fact she's so cute. All guys think this way at a point or another, you just need to realize you are doing it.

And you said "RELATIONSHIP" not "CASUAL" in your first post.

Either way, I would put a stop to this even if it's just a "casual" relationship before you end up with a dirty STD or a broken heart. If you have to ask the question how to keep a relationship with a prostitute, then you are not ready for the heart-break when you see proof she lies under another man.

Also, never believe what she says. She is a prostitute. She will tell you she only did it because she was curious, whatever. She won't tell you the truth that she gets off on the control she has when men pay for her pvssy and she enjoys buying clothes/shoes/purses/sh1t like that.

She also won't tell you that she has 3-4 other men at least who are paying for her pvssy.

Even if she decides she wants you as her boyfriend, she will continue to do this.

She may be STD-clean now (although take care still).. but she is in the business of prostitution. Which means she will keep getting new clients whether she will tell you about it or not. New clients = new diseases.

Lastly I want you to fully acknowledge the fact that she is indeed a prostitute.

No she's not a call-girl or an escort, lets not sugar coat it. She is a prostitute.

And alike pregnancy, you can't be half pregnant.

She isn't half prostitute, half relationship material. I don't give a dam what you think her personality is like. She is a prostitute. She gets paid to be nice to you and please you and other men, even if it's petty change.

This is trouble. You knew it was trouble before you posted, but you wanted us to give you encouragement that it's okay. Well its not. And you won't listen will you?

At least wrap it up and take care.
 

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I know it's not the greatest of situations. At least I know she's screwing around compared to dating a girl I think is wholesome and she's not.

But I won't be taking this chick too seriously. And at least I know you guys look down on prostitutes (but endorse getting rich so women will come easily...those women are similar to prostitues too since they only see your money).
 

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Being rich and having women come to you for your money is cool as long as:
1. You get the pvssy
2. You make sure you sell her on the dream without delivering (dont actually pay for it just make her think you will)

Yes gold diggers can be compared to prostitutes. But there is a significant difference.

When you are with a gold digger, you are the prize in her eyes. She is working for your attention.

When you are with a prostitute, her pvssy is the prize and you are paying for it with hard cash.

The impact this difference has on your subconcious mind is unfathomable.

When you are wealthy and have gold diggers, you feel on top of the world if you are in control and aware that she is after your money. You know regardless of how you look, talk, act, feel, dress, she will come to you because she is addicted to your money, even if you don't deliver.

When you are engaging in buying prostitution, you feel like a drug addict that has to buy his next injection.

The mentality is similar at first inspection but the deeper subconscious characteristics can be very different.

This skank will come and go out of your life. But what will stay with you forever is the way you feel about yourself. And that is much harder to change than getting a prostitute. Being the client of a hooker is detrimental to your mental health.
 

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Every relationship has a chance, until you turn into a chump. But the more you care about her, the harder it will be to ignore the fact that she is a working girl. And problems could arise from more than just simple jealousy. It is only reasonable to be worried about the safety of a hooker who meets strangers off the Internet. Serial killers pick hookers because they are very easy to kill. If she has no pimp or agency, that will only last until she gets robbed, beat up, or raped.

And speaking of mental health, her own psyche has got to have problems. Maybe daddy worked all the time and ignored her, and selling her body is how she validates herself. Maybe it is the one thing that would piss off her father the most, which is why she does it. The girl has issues and drama from her childhood that you do not yet know about.
 

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Thanks for the insight guys. I'm gonna tread carefully, but we got to know each other very well and the vibe I get from her isn't WATCH OUT. I've been with beautiful escorts who I wouldn't tell my last name. They gave me the wrong vibe. I wasn't born yesterday so I'm not being made into a sucker.

One more question. Do you know of any hooker that will invite a guy to her house, become facebook friends, give him a real number and not throwaway phone number, texts randomly, let him drive her car, meet her parens, and don't pressure about payment.

I am rationalizing this situation, most guys do when they try to justify a girl they're seeing. I've had sex with plenty of normal girls and plenty of escorts. This girl strikes me as a bored college girl who occassionally has guys pay her for sex. Seems like with me, she also took a deeper interest.
 

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Anyway, she wants to cook me dinner tonight (she's going to culinary school) even after the conversation that I want to hang out without paying anymore. I'll see how this goes.
 

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Unless you are a pimp you should not be hanging around/chilling with prostitutes like they are normal people.
 

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Metaphysical said:
so she has a nice house? how do you think she's paying for it?

i have never paid for call girls or escorts but i have dated strippers.

and when strippers get drunk or after sex, they will talk their mouths off and brag about how many guys they are playing.

similar to strippers, escorts got to make their money somehow. once you are in the game of prostitution, you get disensitized.

essentially you are falling in love with a prostitute. that's worse than that Lil wayne song "fell in love with a stripper"... or whoever was the singer

have you never heard the saying: "you can't turn a wh0r3 into a house wife?"

I have no idea why you would want a relationship with an escort. I guess you must like the way she looks and got attached to her too strong because of that.

I say let the skank go be some other man's problem. I don't want to worry about her having another mans cvm on her mouth every time you kiss her.
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oneitis for a hooker? Wow. I guess stranger things have happened, but wow.

Hooker = red flag. (Probably a big one too) Red flags are bad usually. But what do I know.
 

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You are p*ssy whipped off a hooker! OP, I don't like where this is going.

Metaphysical said:
So she has a nice house? how do you think she's paying for it?

Duh, she's selling her body and doing a lot of it because she knows that when she gets old and her looks start fading, she will have a much harder time!

I have never paid for call girls or escorts but i have dated strippers.

I hope you ain't bought a dance from them.

and when strippers get drunk or after sex, they will talk their mouths off and brag about how many guys they are playing.

Yuck, like OMG! :eek: Imagine how many other guy's semen residue you've licked!

Similar to strippers, escorts got to make their money somehow. Once you are in the game of prostitution, you get desensitized.

Damn right!

Essentially you are falling in love with a prostitute. that's worse than that Lil wayne song "fell in love with a stripper"... or whoever was the singer

It was T-Pain, not Lil' Wayne, who was in love with a stripper.

Have you never heard the saying: "you can't turn a wh0r3 into a house wife?"

It's you can't turn a ho into a housewife. I was watching The Players Club yesterday.

I have no idea why you would want a relationship with an escort. I guess you must like the way she looks and got attached to her too strong because of that.

OP, this is your damn problem. You got hooked on p*ssy that you paid for and it's even worse that you're naive to realize that when she's not near you, she's got about 100+ guys in her phone who'll pay for that p*ssy and be by her at the drop of a dime.

I say let the skank go be some other man's problem. I don't want to worry about her having another mans cvm on her mouth every time you kiss her.

For real.

So she lives with her mom and dad and does prostitution on the side. Wow, that is even more ****ed up. So she doesn't even "NEED" the money.

Very true, but you can never have too much money. But If I had a daughter, I wouldn't allow her to be a prostitute. I'd boot her out of the house after I give her a down south ass whippin'!

She just sleeps around with guys for their money just for fun so she can buy herself nice clothes, nice shoes, nice purses.

I guess she must be a 20 on a scale of 1-10. And it get's higher and higher! All a woman has to worry about is looks. If she's pretty, she got it easy. If a dude's rich, he got it easy.

That is retarded teenage behaviour. And you say you like her personality?? I highly doubt it.

That personality sh*t is nothing more than a facade to get you to keep on coming back to her like every other client in her cell phone. Understand that right now.

The fact that this girl is charging for sex must mean she is at least cute and you get high on the fact she's so cute. All guys think this way at a point or another, you just need to realize you are doing it.

I wonder when the OP will or if he already has.

And you said "RELATIONSHIP" not "CASUAL" in your first post.

Should've stuck with casual and you wouldn't end up asking this sh*t.

Either way, I would put a stop to this even if it's just a "casual" relationship before you end up with a dirty STD or a broken heart. If you have to ask the question how to keep a relationship with a prostitute, then you are not ready for the heart-break when you see proof she lies under another man.

Or two. Or three.

Also, never believe what she says. She is a prostitute. She will tell you she only did it because she was curious, whatever. She won't tell you the truth that she gets off on the control she has when men pay for her pvssy and she enjoys buying clothes/shoes/purses/sh1t like that.

You better let this marinate!

She also won't tell you that she has 3-4 other men at least who are paying for her pvssy.

See above.

Even if she decides she wants you as her boyfriend, she will continue to do this.

Why the f**k wold you want a prostitute as a girlfriend? YOU KNOW GODDAMN WELL THAT SHE WILL CONTINUE SPENDING TIME WITH OTHER D**KS BESIDE YOU!!!

She may be STD-clean now (although take care still).. but she is in the business of prostitution. Which means she will keep getting new clients whether she will tell you about it or not. New clients = new diseases.

And new time spent with them instead of you.

Lastly I want you to fully acknowledge the fact that she is indeed a prostitute.

Please do.

No she's not a call-girl or an escort, let's not sugar coat it. She is a prostitute.

Thank god you finally said it right.

And alike pregnancy, you can't be half pregnant.

LOL! :crackup:

She isn't half prostitute, half relationship material. I don't give a dam what you think her personality is like. She is a prostitute. She gets paid to be nice to you and please you and other men, even if it's petty change.

LOL! Just like a stripper who gets paid to be nice to you to get you to open your wallet and to open your schedule to keep coming back.

This is trouble. You knew it was trouble before you posted, but you wanted us to give you encouragement that it's okay. Well it's not. And you won't listen will you?

I'm just about through.

At least wrap it up and take care.

Whoa.

Being rich and having women come to you for your money is cool as long as:
1. You get the pvssy
2. You make sure you sell her on the dream without delivering (don't actually pay for it just make her think you will)

This is what most millionaires do, at least the smart ones!

Yes gold diggers can be compared to prostitutes. But there is a significant difference.

The term gold-digger is Spanish for long-term prostitute. They give all the love and attention that you can handle and then some. But the moment you go broke or stop opening your wallet, she'll leave and go to the next victim.

When you are with a gold digger, you are the prize in her eyes. She is working for your attention.

Whoever has the gold makes the rules.

When you are with a prostitute, her pvssy is the prize and you are paying for it with hard cash.

Same thing with most strippers. I'm glad you realize Meta.

The impact this difference has on your subconcious mind is unfathomable.

Ooh wee.

When you are wealthy and have gold diggers, you feel on top of the world if you are in control and aware that she is after your money. You know regardless of how you look, talk, act, feel, dress, she will come to you because she is addicted to your money, even if you don't deliver.

DING DING DING DING DING!!! :rockon:

When you are engaging in buying prostitution, you feel like a drug addict that has to buy his next injection.

Keep on preaching!

The mentality is similar at first inspection but the deeper subconscious characteristics can be very different.

Meta, you got damn good insight!

This skank will come and go out of your life. But what will stay with you forever is the way you feel about yourself. And that is much harder to change than getting a prostitute. Being the client of a hooker is detrimental to your mental health.

Which is why hookers ain't worth it to me.
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lol

This is hilarious. It sounds like she's not a very careful prostitute. But she is an effective one.
 

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Frank_Tartaglia said:
lol

This is hilarious. It sounds like she's not a very careful prostitute. But she is an effective one.
An effective prostitute would know how to milk a man for a lot of money.
 
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