"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Story about my friend steeling another girl...

inzone50

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Long story short....

They are co-workers... She has a bf. He is single. He chats her up, plays it cool build her interest level, pulls back. Starts dissecting her relationship with her bf. In the span of a month she went from everything is fine with her boyfriend to she found that she didn't have a lot in common with him... sometimes it got boring... they are two different people... My friend makes it clear that he see's her sexually attractive. She breaks it off with her bf... wants to hang out with my friend. He chooses not to date her cuz he is moving in 4 months after his term is over.

My point is not about her AFC ex or my friend...

but how do you trust women after that? straight up?

Like this wouldn't happen to most off us because our game is good. But that doesn't change that your women, i mean she is still that same skank but not leaving you because you are so good.

i just realize how ****ed up people not just women are in general. like there is maybe 5% of women out their that are more than entertainment or sex material...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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aliasguy

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Your eyes are opening.

I don't necessarily agree with your 5% number. But you are correct about how the world really IS.

Button your chinstrap and get your socks on straight. Good game, btw, is no guarantee, either.

This isn't BAD, it just IS.
 

inzone50

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Haha, what did my friend gain though? So he ****s her.

you know i think the AFC ex wins in this situation. he stayed himself. he lost something that wasn't worth keeping.
 

JLW

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thats how the world works.

but in all honesty, she at least had the decency to break it off with him instead of cheat on him. I see nothing wrong with breaking up with somebody because you have not so much in common with them. If she straight up cheated on him, that would be a different story.

Yea, its tough for the ex, but it doesn't seem like she was "wrong" for doing what she did.
 
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