"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Story about my friend steeling another girl...

inzone50

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Long story short....

They are co-workers... She has a bf. He is single. He chats her up, plays it cool build her interest level, pulls back. Starts dissecting her relationship with her bf. In the span of a month she went from everything is fine with her boyfriend to she found that she didn't have a lot in common with him... sometimes it got boring... they are two different people... My friend makes it clear that he see's her sexually attractive. She breaks it off with her bf... wants to hang out with my friend. He chooses not to date her cuz he is moving in 4 months after his term is over.

My point is not about her AFC ex or my friend...

but how do you trust women after that? straight up?

Like this wouldn't happen to most off us because our game is good. But that doesn't change that your women, i mean she is still that same skank but not leaving you because you are so good.

i just realize how ****ed up people not just women are in general. like there is maybe 5% of women out their that are more than entertainment or sex material...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Your eyes are opening.

I don't necessarily agree with your 5% number. But you are correct about how the world really IS.

Button your chinstrap and get your socks on straight. Good game, btw, is no guarantee, either.

This isn't BAD, it just IS.
 

inzone50

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Haha, what did my friend gain though? So he ****s her.

you know i think the AFC ex wins in this situation. he stayed himself. he lost something that wasn't worth keeping.
 

JLW

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thats how the world works.

but in all honesty, she at least had the decency to break it off with him instead of cheat on him. I see nothing wrong with breaking up with somebody because you have not so much in common with them. If she straight up cheated on him, that would be a different story.

Yea, its tough for the ex, but it doesn't seem like she was "wrong" for doing what she did.
 
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