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Story about a girl From My Vacation (Too much drama)

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Hey everyone, I made it home from my 10 day vacation just last night. It feels good to be home. I went to Clearwater, Florida with my cousin and her friend to stay with my Grandparents. It turned out to be nothing but a lot of drama down there. I kept notes in a journal during my stay, so here's the story.

To make the story easier for me to write, I'm making up some names. We'll call my cousin "Cuz", and her friend will be "Bay".

Day 1

When I got to the airport to leave, I met Cuz and Bay there. I knew Bay a long time ago but haven't seen her in years. I couldn't believe how beautiful she is now, at least an HB9. Her first words to me was "Wow, somebody has been working out since I last saw you." I smiled and we talked about how exciting it is to be staying together for the next 10 days.

We then boarded the plane, and arrived in Florida at about 8 at night. After getting all our stuff unpacked, Bay and I decided to go for a walk down to the pool and go for a quick night swim. Cuz had a phone call so she didn't come with us. The pool was completely empty, and I must admit, seeing Bay in a bathing suit was quite tempting. I just acted like a friend though, and we we're tossing each other around in the pool. After some of the fun died down, we got out of the water and sat on the side. Bay initiated alot of Kino and flirting with me. She kept telling me that I look good without my shirt on and stuff, But I can't remember much of the actual conversation.

After the pool, we went back to the house, and my grandparents were in bed. So me, Cuz, and Bay decided to make some margaritas. We then went outside onto the balcony, and gave our cheers to the start of a wonderful vacation. Bay and I continued to be very flirty that night, but nothing more as of yet. I hugged her goodnight, and we went to bed.

Day 2

I woke up and we all got ready to go to the beach for the day with my grandparents. It kind of sucked to be constantly around the grandparents, since Bay and I couldn't really show much interest when they were around, but nothing really interesting happened during the day. that night, we went back down to the pool and Cuz came along with us this time. We had a blast down there, at one point Bay dunked me underwater, and when I came back up, her and Cuz were laughing about something. I asked bay what was so funny and they wouldn't tell me what she said. She said "You'll know by the time we leave our vacation."

After the pool, we went back to sit out on the balcony once again. I kept being persistent about what Bay said earlier, since I had a gut feeling it was something about me. I joked to her "Have a few more margaritas and then I bet I'll get it out of you." Finally I just said "You know what, I think I know what it is." And she goes "What do you think it is?". I told her that I'm not telling her. But finally we agreed that I'll just keep asking questions and they'll tell me if I'm right or wrong. So heres what I said.

Danny: Is it something about us?
Bay: (Smiling) Yes.
Danny: hmmm. Is it something dirty?
Bay: (Laughing) Well, not really.
Danny: (Lowering my voice to sound a bit more seductive) Do you want to kiss me?
Bay: (looking straight into my eyes) That's not what I said, but I wouldn't mind it.
Danny: You tell me what you said and then I'll let you kiss me.

Then I just kissed her anyway, but after the kiss she says,

Bay: I said earlier that I want you so bad.
Danny: (Smiling) That's what I thought. And it only took one margarita to get that out of you.

We laughed and continued to flirt, and it was getting late, so I kissed her goodnight.

Day 3

We woke up early to go out to breakfast, the grandparents were around but me and Bay constantly exchanged eye contact and smiles while sitting at the table. Nothing majorly interesting so I'll just skip ahead to that night.

Bay and I decided to walk down to the movie theater to see Adam Sandler's new movie 'Click'. We were kissing and touching alot, but the movie was pretty good. I was surprised at how sad it was towards the second half of the movie.

After the movie we did the same thing we did every night so far, went out to sit on the balcony, since that's the only place we could get some privacy. Bay started telling me she's really starting to like me, she said "It's not hard to fall for somebody when you're pretty much living with them." I just smiled and kissed her. I never admitted it to her, but she is right, I already started to have feelings for her after only 3 days, we did end up getting very close in that little bit of time. But anyway, we continued to cuddle and take pictures of ourselves kissing and stuff. Then the conversation went towards sex. Bay said how bad she wants me again. And this is how the convo went.

Danny: I don't know how we can get enough privacy to do anything in this house.
Bay: Well, we have to think of something, I don't know how long I can wait.
Danny: (Smiling) I got a plan, how about you sneak over into my room after everyone goes to bed. You just better be quiet.
Bay: (Smiling) I'll try.

She got all excited and we kissed and talked for like 10 minutes. Then we went to bed. And sure enough, about 20 minutes later, she came into my room and laid down next to me. We went straight into kissing, and we got started. I was amazed at how hot she was looking, and I noticed she was very nervous while doing it, she didn't think she was going to be any good.

After we we're done having sex, we went back to laying side by side. That's when she went into some relationship talk.

Bay: Do you think you'll still love me when we get back?

Whoa! I was getting pretty close to her, but I never told her I loved her, so this was awkward. So I just smiled and kissed her, didn't say anything, but she seemed happy with that response. We kissed for a while then I said "Bay, you better get to bed, it's like 3am and we have to get up early" She said ok, kissed me again and started to walk out of the room. But then she came back in and said:

Bay: (Smiling) One more kiss.

She kissed me one more time, and says "I just don't want to leave."
I then told her, "You know, we still have 7 days left down here, so it's not like you won't be seein me."
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Day 4

I was very, very tired today. And I think I upset Bay because I wasn't showing much interest all day. I wanted to, but I was just out of it. She laid down next to me when I was sitting on the couch, and I didn't say much to her. Then I think it made her mad so she walked away. Nothing much really happened this day except a kiss goodnight, and then I slept like a log.

Day 5

After a goodnight sleep I felt quite happy again. Who wouldn't? I have a hottie wrapped around my finger, and I like her too. But, this is where the drama starts. I go up to her and say something flirty, she completely blows me off. What's the deal with that?? I just let it go, and tried again a few more times and didn't get any good responses out of her. I didn't know what the hell was going on, It sucked because it bugged me alot, and I had nowhere to go to get my mind off of it. I ended up just going to bed without saying much to her that day.

Day 6

I noticed Bay kept giving me sad looks when we were sitting at the dinner table. I had to say something to her, because it was driving me nuts all this awkwardness between us, but I had to wait for a time when I could talk to her alone. So that night, I told her to come outside with me again so we could talk.

It was pouring down rain that night, but I just stood next to her and said "What is your deal? Are you playing mind games with me or something? Cause I don't like it.". Bay's eyes started to water and that's when she comes out with some vital information.

Bay: I'm sorry, I shouldn't have done anything with you, I have a boyfriend.

Wow was I pissed! I just gave her a blank stare and tryed to think of something to say back to that, she was crying and stuff. Then she goes, "But I don't even like him! I like you."

I was just like whatever and just turned around and walked back into the house. She didn't come in for about 10 minutes after I went in, So I don't know if she was out there crying or what. I didn't care though, I was pissed. I went into Cuz's bedroom and asked her, is it true that Bay has a boyfriend or is she makin that up? Cuz said "Yeah, she does, but she really isn't that close to him." I just went to bed that night and hoped that things would get better, this sucked that I couldn't even just NEXT her, I still had 4 days to be with her, and I didn't know what to do.

Day 7 and 8

I just tried to avoid her as much as possible these days, I went for a few bike rides and stuff, just to try to get my mind off of her, but it wasn't working. I figured there's no use being pissed off at her and ruining the rest of my vacation. So during day 8 I called her back outside again, and had a bit more of a lighthearted conversation with her.

Danny: Bay, I do understand that you'd rather be with me than your boyfriend and stuff, I was just mad that you lied to me, so let's just hang out and be friends the rest of this vacation, have fun together, and we'll see what happens when we get home.
Bay: Well I don't think I'll be with him much longer.
Danny: I don't really care, we'll just be buddies and see if it goes anywhere whenever you're single.
Bay: Ok, thats fine.

She gets up, hugs me and says "Thank you." Things were good for the rest of that day.

Day 9

That night, I heard Bay crying on her phone in her room. I was going to go in and see if everything was alright. But I stopped at the door when I heard she was talking to her mother about her boyfriend. I kept hearing her say stuff like "He's so mean to me and I don't like him anymore." I guess she was thinking of breaking up with him, but I don't know.

Day 10

Busy day, we had to pack everything and get ready to leave. I seriously couldn't wait to get home to see all my buddies again and get my mind off of all this crap. Little did I know, when we got to the airport back here at home, Bay's boyfriend was there to pick her up, she didn't look too happy to see him, but she also didn't even say bye to me. Oh well, I guess I'll be hangin out with my buddies this week and by the end of the week I'll completely forget about her. Look's like I left Florida with nothing but a tan.

Well I guess I did get to have sex with a HB9 too.
 

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This is a very good story man, sad too. Also, I don't understand how she lied to you, nowhere in the story does it talk about her saying that she was single. Oh, and I would like to go on record for saying "You got Punk'd!!!!!!" But look at it this way, you banged a hot chick with no commitment! That's a great achievment! The best part was that it's HER fault nothing worked, and you got off Scott free!

:cheer: :box: :rock: :crackup: :D :) :moon: :p :kick:
 

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Point Blank said:
This is a very good story man, sad too. Also, I don't understand how she lied to you, nowhere in the story does it talk about her saying that she was single. Oh, and I would like to go on record for saying "You got Punk'd!!!!!!" But look at it this way, you banged a hot chick with no commitment! That's a great achievment! The best part was that it's HER fault nothing worked, and you got off Scott free!

:cheer: :box: :rock: :crackup: :D :) :moon: :p :kick:
Hahaha, yeah man, I was pretty upset, I admit I still miss her. But I guess I just need to get out there and look for new girls. I don't think it's possible to get anything to work out with Bay. And she didn't directly lie to me, I think it was more the fact that she made me BELIEVE that she was single and ready to be with me. She's my cousin's best friend, so I know I'll always see her, but I'm not sure if I want to. I don't even want to get my vacation pictures developed because she's like in every one haha.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lol.
 

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Does anyone think I should try again for her if she ever tries to get in contact with me again? I guess I thought I was stronger than I really am, I've been with lots of girls, but never felt the way I did towards Bay in such a short time. I never thought a girl would consume my mind like she is now, I talked to my cousin, and she said Bay is thinking the same way about me.
 
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