Me I like girls to do not all the talking but supplement alot of it, no I do not depend on them for the conversation but this is how I am with my male friends even I like people that talk alot and I reflect that energy back. Either way for the most part I've never had communication problems with girls but I notice with some girls they ask me to tell them something like they want me to tell them a story. I wonder if you guys have any base stories that you use and just use your imagination to talk about when your with girls to fill the empty void with girls that do not talk alot.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Stories To Tell Girls
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
nostalgia, fun, excitement, travel, new experiences - focus on the emotions involved rather than the tangible parts of the story.
Do a search, plenty of good threads on this.
But, in short...
Tell stories that indirectly accenuate your qualities, strengths, value.
Tell stories that mesmerize them with your life's adventures.
The time you had a knife pulled on you at 3am, at that bus-stop in nicaragua, for saving a girl's purse. Etc. lol
Stories are great, cause of their ability to subcommunicate in indirect ways.
Think about that, and...Capitalize on it.
But, in short...
Tell stories that indirectly accenuate your qualities, strengths, value.
Tell stories that mesmerize them with your life's adventures.
The time you had a knife pulled on you at 3am, at that bus-stop in nicaragua, for saving a girl's purse. Etc. lol
Stories are great, cause of their ability to subcommunicate in indirect ways.
Think about that, and...Capitalize on it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Damn,
I knew you looked like that knife wielding nicaruguan i pwned after saving her purse! What you didnt know however was that she is part of my demos for womens personal training seminars and we filmed that stunt LIVE to teach them about the dangers of the street!
I knew you looked like that knife wielding nicaruguan i pwned after saving her purse! What you didnt know however was that she is part of my demos for womens personal training seminars and we filmed that stunt LIVE to teach them about the dangers of the street!