"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stoplight Day

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adpreston1988

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Okay, so the student board on my school is probably the dumbest board I've ever heard of. They came up with this stoplight day (before the homecoming dance this weekend), in which if you already have a date to the dance you wear red, if you are looking for a date you wear yellow, and if you've made up your mind to go solo you wear green. I'm not even sure which color I would wear, let alone wearing it. I dont' know if I would wear a green or yellow because I really have too many feelings right now for soo many girls that I don't even know who I would want to go with at the moment. Anyways, I doubt that people will actually do this at my school and if I went to school wearing yellow I doubt many other people would be wearing yellow as well and it would be very embarassing. So I'm thinking of just wearing blue and then if I see someone I like wearing yellow maybe I'll go for it (even though it is cominghome so isn't it traditional for the girl to ask the guy?) Any thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wear all three...

undecided, make sure they know it! You ain't confident, you ask kestions, why ask us?

Are you taken?--------wanna lie?
Are you going solo?--wanna fight the power?
are you looking?------wanna tell the truth?

Just pull the thing like that guy who rejected the crown.

Wear yellow, ask out like 40 other girls who are wearing yellow. Learn their tricks, pull it on the girls who are wearing greeen(the smart ones), and when you get rejected by all of them, just go ahead and take off the stupid shirt and ask out random girls again. Keep trying.

Now's the time you tell me your not afraid. Okay?
 
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Be a MAN!!!

Make up your mind whether to go stag or ask someone out, then wear the appropriate color. Dont be pathetic and pretend to be taken (besides, if a girl gots the hots for you it could be embarassing if she corners you at the dance). Dont get stuck in indecision, make your choice and live with it.
 
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I decided to go with wearing blue. It was a good decision too, because maybe 2-3 people at most were wearing yellow out of a school of 1100. There were a few more people dressed in green, but by far the most people were dressed in red of the three.
 
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