"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stoplight Day

adpreston1988

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Okay, so the student board on my school is probably the dumbest board I've ever heard of. They came up with this stoplight day (before the homecoming dance this weekend), in which if you already have a date to the dance you wear red, if you are looking for a date you wear yellow, and if you've made up your mind to go solo you wear green. I'm not even sure which color I would wear, let alone wearing it. I dont' know if I would wear a green or yellow because I really have too many feelings right now for soo many girls that I don't even know who I would want to go with at the moment. Anyways, I doubt that people will actually do this at my school and if I went to school wearing yellow I doubt many other people would be wearing yellow as well and it would be very embarassing. So I'm thinking of just wearing blue and then if I see someone I like wearing yellow maybe I'll go for it (even though it is cominghome so isn't it traditional for the girl to ask the guy?) Any thoughts?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ethnomethodologist

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Wear all three...

undecided, make sure they know it! You ain't confident, you ask kestions, why ask us?

Are you taken?--------wanna lie?
Are you going solo?--wanna fight the power?
are you looking?------wanna tell the truth?

Just pull the thing like that guy who rejected the crown.

Wear yellow, ask out like 40 other girls who are wearing yellow. Learn their tricks, pull it on the girls who are wearing greeen(the smart ones), and when you get rejected by all of them, just go ahead and take off the stupid shirt and ask out random girls again. Keep trying.

Now's the time you tell me your not afraid. Okay?
 

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Be a MAN!!!

Make up your mind whether to go stag or ask someone out, then wear the appropriate color. Dont be pathetic and pretend to be taken (besides, if a girl gots the hots for you it could be embarassing if she corners you at the dance). Dont get stuck in indecision, make your choice and live with it.
 

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I decided to go with wearing blue. It was a good decision too, because maybe 2-3 people at most were wearing yellow out of a school of 1100. There were a few more people dressed in green, but by far the most people were dressed in red of the three.
 
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