Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Stop worrying about what others think or how they might react...

stuka1939

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Are you the type that cares what others think about you or your situation too much?

Are you afraid to go after what you want or deserve in life because you are afraid someone or others may not like you for it?

IT IS A WASTE OF TIME! STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT YOU CAN'T CONTROL!!!

For example, you CAN'T CONTROL the fact that some guy is insecure and jealous and angry that you are talking to his girlfriend or some girl he is smitten with.

You CAN'T CONTROL nor should you worry about those 3 guys sitting at the end of the bar who dislike you and are envious because you just walked in with a HB8.

You CAN'T CONTROL if people stare at you or give you dirty looks because they don't think you are good-looking enough to be with an attractive woman.

You CAN'T CONTROL if some co-workers are envious of you because you worked real hard on something and got praise from your boss.


PLEASE CHANGE NOW.......if you are failing to go for that promotion at work, or talking to the cute waitress or having a hot girlfriend out of fear that somebody(s) will have a problem with it.

BTW, people probably actually care about what you are doing with your life less than you think and the ones that are envious have self-esteem issues.

There are ALWAYS going to be people who don't like you (including strangers) no matter how nice, respectful and fair you are. The more successful you are, the more enemies you will have.

Just look at Jesus Christ himself; He was sinless and perfect, yet more people hated him than loved him when he was alive. ENVY played a big role in this.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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