Stop watching Porn - it's a flaw for DJs

[bob2007]

I've been really analyzing myself lately trying to figure out what's the problem with me and girls in general. I've realized that i've been taking the easy way out of the approach, and the attempts to contact with girls, especially cute ones.

I found that the problem was possibly watching porn too much. It gave me a false sense of satisfaction, being able to see cute girls naked, instead of attempting to do so in real life - or at least even comming in contact with them. I've always thought that "satisfaction hinders success".

Therefore, by not watching porn, it's made me work harder at getting the "real" girls and more outgoing towards them.

Hope this helps.

 

[trickynick]

Interesting post. I really don't think your problem lies in porn specifically so much as ANY behavior to which you retreat in order to anesthetize yourself to reality. I say work on that issue above all. But yes, if porn is this kind of problem for you then stop it. Just be careful you don't replace it with yet another behavior.

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You either own the game or it owns you!

 

[Ashlee Angel]

I agree. for me porn only got in the way of my DJ goals. It also gives you a fasle sence of what regular girls bodies look like.

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The more girls you ask out the more chances of you getting a yes.

 

[bfl]

yeah porn definetly affects a dj

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