Stop using Internet Dating as a Buffer and grow a F@ckin’ Pair
Guys who resort to Internet dating are in two main camps:
A) About 5 % - Guys who have it together and are simply using it as a way to gain access to a wider variety of women (this applies mostly to older and more experienced men).
B) About 95% - Guys who are using internet dating as a buffer (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125865) as an excuse to avoid confronting their fear of rejection and taking action in the real world.
There is nothing wrong with being in Camp A. Whereas being in Camp B is incredibly harmful to your self-improvement as a man.
To find out which camp you are in, ask yourself this question?
In the recent times you have met up with a chick from online, have you banged her the first time you met her (with this happening more than once)?
If yes, you are probably in camp A. You have nothing to worry about.
Whereas, if you answered “No” (and especially if you are in your 20’s and/or have yet to lay a girl through online dating), you are without a doubt in Camp B.
If so, you need to confront your fears and realise that at some stage, if you want to be banging a girls brains out, you have to be with her in person.
Hiding behind a computer screen is only delaying your development and causing more harm than good.
Girls online as a general rule are less attractive on average than those in real life and with more issues as well. Big beached whales (BBW), single moms, crazy b!tches, they are all there.
Stop deluding yourself that the reason you’ve given up on all those gorgeous hotties you’ve seen in bars and clubs and resorted to online is because they are “low quality” girls, and you are looking for more of a connection with a girl who also has a good personality.
We all know that is complete b/s.
The real reason why you have resorted to online is because you are afraid to approach and speak to girls in real life.
At some stage you will have to confront your fears and admit to yourself the real reason why you are online. The sooner the better, for your sake.
Guys (including some on this forum) boast about being able to spam messages out to chicks on online dating sites and get responses, and keep going on about it like it is the best thing in the world.
But you know what?
Any dude can put a few half decent pics up, spam a hundred girls and get some to respond.
It means jack sh1t unless you are meeting up with them IN REAL LIFE and banging their brains out.
One approach out in the real world will be worth the same in experience as hundreds of hours surfing online dating profiles.
Cancel your online dating accounts, man up and grow a fvckin’ pair, go out and talk to women and stop deluding yourself.
Guys who resort to Internet dating are in two main camps:
A) About 5 % - Guys who have it together and are simply using it as a way to gain access to a wider variety of women (this applies mostly to older and more experienced men).
B) About 95% - Guys who are using internet dating as a buffer (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125865) as an excuse to avoid confronting their fear of rejection and taking action in the real world.
There is nothing wrong with being in Camp A. Whereas being in Camp B is incredibly harmful to your self-improvement as a man.
To find out which camp you are in, ask yourself this question?
In the recent times you have met up with a chick from online, have you banged her the first time you met her (with this happening more than once)?
If yes, you are probably in camp A. You have nothing to worry about.
Whereas, if you answered “No” (and especially if you are in your 20’s and/or have yet to lay a girl through online dating), you are without a doubt in Camp B.
If so, you need to confront your fears and realise that at some stage, if you want to be banging a girls brains out, you have to be with her in person.
Hiding behind a computer screen is only delaying your development and causing more harm than good.
Girls online as a general rule are less attractive on average than those in real life and with more issues as well. Big beached whales (BBW), single moms, crazy b!tches, they are all there.
Stop deluding yourself that the reason you’ve given up on all those gorgeous hotties you’ve seen in bars and clubs and resorted to online is because they are “low quality” girls, and you are looking for more of a connection with a girl who also has a good personality.
We all know that is complete b/s.
The real reason why you have resorted to online is because you are afraid to approach and speak to girls in real life.
At some stage you will have to confront your fears and admit to yourself the real reason why you are online. The sooner the better, for your sake.
Guys (including some on this forum) boast about being able to spam messages out to chicks on online dating sites and get responses, and keep going on about it like it is the best thing in the world.
But you know what?
Any dude can put a few half decent pics up, spam a hundred girls and get some to respond.
It means jack sh1t unless you are meeting up with them IN REAL LIFE and banging their brains out.
One approach out in the real world will be worth the same in experience as hundreds of hours surfing online dating profiles.
Cancel your online dating accounts, man up and grow a fvckin’ pair, go out and talk to women and stop deluding yourself.
