"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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STOP trying to be a PLAYER (the meaning of sosuave.com)

Badmannaz

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ok i'm sorry but i had to post this alot of you guys on here aren't getting any so of course your on here reading the stories and chocking your member....i say that's atleast 75% of you guys...now your taking it from a guy who was a sucky ass AFC and i was in the 75% but now after working out and getting in the feild taking my fair share of rejections....i actually have some attractive women right now who are willing to be with me....

Now another thing is alot of you guys think sosuave is here so that you can become a player...lets just face it...about 90% of you guys who are reading it don't have the emotion nore wittz to become a player...a player is a man who n some time n his life has totally shut of emotion when it comes to sex and caring about a women...a player doesn't care about a women...he needs his space...very independent and underneath it all will always be lonely because he or she is incompatible....My Advice is walk up to a women and be yourself!!! forget all these f*cking pick up lines...calm the F*ck down and talk to her. O of course your scared....I was too!!! now i have a hb9 that i'm not even sure i want...but she wants me....the fact of the matter is i know alot of guys say they wanna get laid but the truth is...you just want a Girlfriend who cares about you and wants to hold you and all that good sh*t...you wanna wake up in the morning knowing that you have a person who cares about you and wants to be with you....
now if you have that great....if your the guy who REALLY wants jus SEX Stop READING!!!
This is to the guy who's sitting at his computer....lonely ...and he has that feeling in his chest....it feels like a hole is your stomach...a void that needs to be filled.. i know..i've been there...

I'm here to say my vision of women drastically changed from a godess...to desperate women everywhere who needs a good guy to treat them right...sosuave is here to kick you in the step needed to get the number..to go on dates and to eventually F*ck...but sitting in front of your comp all day won't help...Lemme tell you the real guys aren't on sosuave there out picking up the girls you can get...stop being losers and calm down and talk to that hot chick you've been thinking about for a week...chances are your gonna get a rejected but you gotta understand this is the game EVERY SINGE GUY GOES THROUGH!!! it's the guy who get's turned down but gets back up and keeps going who's got all the chicks foreal..so seriously just go out and talk to these females there waiting...this is on a real MAN topic...seriously alot of you guys don't have wat it takes.2 b players..you probably can do it..but emotionally you can't...but like i said if you can do wat you do...but if your not getting any girls i suggest you start with one....stop trying to be something your not cut out to be!!:moon: :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon: :moon:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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manbearpig

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You're right, I think a lot of people here ultimately want LTRs, even if they won't say that.

Thing is you can't jump right from dateless AFC to being in a fulfilling relationship with a woman who turns you on. You've gotta work your way up and that means learning to PLAY THE GAME.
 

Bigg Boss

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I want a LTR but I also talk to alot of women and sarge alot.

It's fun, I want the best of both worlds lol. I want a girl to fall back on when I'm down (my current LTR girl), and I want girls that are new to me. sh*t i want everything.

This game is fun, I call myself a player. Maybe not a player as in pimp but a player as in player of the game.
 
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Very nice.. Nice post.. yes the key is to "JUST DO IT" and be "Yourself" is very simmilar to us, i.e. we all want to be loved, respected etc etc etc (I.e. if she disrepected you, dont be a b.itch be yourself as you feel and stand up for yourself") yes play the number...

and also.. note he said something smart, a true player is lonely,, YES, in fact the life of a PIMP is LONELEY...

anyways, if you see a girl go for it.. dont hesitate, cause regret sux.. YOU WANT KNOW UNLESS YOU ASK...
(by the way, we that post a lot do plenty of sarging, I can type almost 100 words a minute, it takes me but few seconds to type up this ****) and it cant just be sarging ALL the time.. there are other things too...
 
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