Stop trying so hard

[jeffthechef]

Confucius says, "Going too far is as wrong as not going far enough"

This is what has been going on with me recently, and perhaps you..
There's this girl, 2nd or 3rd on my list, and she's good...i mean she can play the guys pretty well...she'll walk to class with my friend...talk to me thorughout class, and walk back to her next class alone...she'll show so much interest and flash all the ioi's when she talks with you...but then she'll just up and leave right after...so i flipped it on her and began to talk to the guy on my right instead...and leave before she left and not bother to say bye or hi for the whole day sometiems...then she shows a bit of confusion..why isn't he trying to game me?

also, don't try and prepare funny lines jokes or **** like i hear many people trying to do....save those for the first outing or use them if they come naturally...BUT NEVER TRY AND INCORPORATE THEM...you'll just **** yourself up...when i first started i would just say hi and all that ****...i thought it wasn't good neough so i tried something new even thoguh it was working quite well

i began to hear these funny ass lines from shows and movies...one day..as that girl was walking to her next class...i was right behind her and this was one of the few times we were not surrounded by so many people...anyways...instead of saying hi and esclating...i was fumbling in my mind through the dozens of lines and which would work and all that ****

what i'm trying to say is..stop trying so hard

go back to the fundamentals...they may be boring sometimes..but they will almost always work
sort of like Tim Duncan fo ryou NBA fans...i grew up liking him and T-Mac...two of the quieter guys in the league...their natural disposition is of subtlety and relaxation...and most guys our age don't like them cause they're boring...but Mr. Fundamental is efficient and many of the guys in the league recognize his abilities

same with gaming girls...although sometimes a method may seem generic and boring..SOMETIMES not always...it's better than trying to do some fancy ass **** and getting rejected by the rim..or in this case the girl

 

[S.Y.L]

I stopped trying so hard lately, and I realize that it was a bad idea. When I tried, I had motivation to go talk to girls and do what I do.

Now I'm just ****in lazy to go flirt and stuff.

 

[jeffthechef]

I stopped trying so hard lately, and I realize that it was a bad idea. When I tried, I had motivation to go talk to girls and do what I do.

Now I'm just ****in lazy to go flirt and stuff.

haha that's so cool...AWESOME...OMG...REALLY? DID THAT HAPPEN?L...TELL ME MORE...I'M LIKKE..LIKE..LIKE...LIKE SO INTERESTED:cheer:

perhaps after that, we can have a sleepover...and i know how you LOVE it when you get a dildo shoved up your ass

I love sarcasm.

 

[Analyzeit]

Yeah man that was a depressing post haha i think he's looking at it all wrong, just because he said don't try so hard doesn't mean don't try at all

 

[jeffthechef]

analyze..exactly..he looked not read and comprehended

perhaps there's a reason why American schools have a declining literacy rate
oh well.

Read my post however which way you want to. The harder you try, the higher up you're pushing her.

 

[S.Y.L]

I was doing that before this was all posted, what I'm saying is, that noones gonna notice you if you don't try.

 

[jeffthechef]

i'm not saying don't try...i'm saying don't try so hard..some people try too hard...they try to push the conversation...do too much kino...eventually making them seem too interested

 

[It's-Me]

i'm not saying don't try...i'm saying don't try so hard..some people try too hard...they try to push the conversation...do too much kino...eventually making them seem too interested

Just go with the flow.

 

[Dimehair]

Go with the flow but start the wave. BTW, I don't like Duncan because I'm a Cleveland fan and because he complains too much. Not because of the 'fundamentals'; I like his game.

 

[jeffthechef]

really? i don't see him complain that much..i think vujacic and gasol are the worst for that....shaq is getting a little annoying too...eh cavaliers...i just can't see them winning...they have ilgauskas and lebron mainly...their role players...varejao, williams, and wallace...they just never seem to jump out enough...like the rockets and celtics and lakers have role players that seem to make more of an impact...battier odom and them

and my ****ing titans...why the **** they let haynesworth go...now they don't have ****...should have gotten T.O. too...i wonder how long till another championship...man they had a good team in 2000...