"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stop Thinking and Delve Into the Depths of SoSuave

Sofomore

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I have decided to write this post for all of us constantly thinking about "what do I do next" or "does she like me?".

I am an aspiring Don Juan. Maybe I am no Pook, or Senor Fingers but I damn well am going to do my best to get there. I hope you feel the same way.

There are a lot of "discussion" posts about small details of your game (I am guilty of it) but its time we change this. No more "what would you do?" threads. It's time to delve deep into the great resource we have all stumbled upon: SoSuave. It's time we grab our balls and forget all the small details about our so-called "love-life".

I demand we read and get EXPERIENCE.

Below is a list of links to threads that I feel everyone should read no matter your experience level. Take your time, study them well. These are long reads but are some of the best threads in SoSuave.

Weapons of Mass Seduction
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=37710&highlight=mass+seduction
Fifteen, yes 15, threads on improving YOU while staying focused on becoming a DJ.

The Gunwitch Method
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=46286
An in-depth description of opening, attracting, isolating and closing. Everyone should read this at least once.

Incredible
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18392
The power of experience in relation to almost all aspects of game.

Ten Commandments of the Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=56631
Ten commandments that every Don Juan should adhere to.

Fifteen Lessons
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=59150
Absolutely phenomenal read. Pook describes fifteen lessons that every man should learn.


Well there you have my suggestions. Check out the forum archive! Check out the tips section! READ and stop THINKING so much, it's not healthy :) .
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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iwanttofight

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Thanks for posting these links, I will read them all, if you got any more links that you think I should read send me the link, thanks Sofomore
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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