SmoothSmooth
Master Don Juan
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Social media and online dating have NOT increased women’s options or made it more difficult to attract women.
People who say this have no idea what they’re talking about.
Very few attractive women meet men from Instagram or Tinder. The ones that do aren’t usually attractive.
Online dating does NOT appeal to hypergamy because men using social media to meet women are instantly low status. ‘Matching’ kills the suspense of natural attraction.
This ‘global sexual market place’ talk is just an idea used to put you in a fear mindset. No attractive girls are interested in dating men outside their city. 99% of girls in NY are dating men in NY. Girls in small rural towns are even more likely to stick to their own. Girls being flown out to Dubai are a very specific niche which has always existed and doesn’t apply for the girls you are talking to.
If anything, the current hookup culture favours men more than any other era in history. Sex within three dates has become a social norm, even for the most average men.
The reasons for declining sex are more due to the increase of porn access, reduction of testosterone levels, over reliance on internet/WhatsApp as a means of communication, lack of social skills etc
Online dating and social media has just confused women to their SMV - seeing other girls get thousands more ‘likes’ etc has made many woman more self conscious than ever. Having 10,000 followers means nothing in 2021… 20 years ago it would have meant you were some kind of celebrity. The standards have become unrealistic and unattainable.
Online dating - again, women match with more creeps than normal guys, and that further leaves them feeling confused - before online dating it would have been hard for a creep to communicate sexually with a hot girl so overtly/directly. Furthermore, women know guys are swiping right on all girls, which makes it less of a SMV confirmation…online dating and social media is just a pastime for most girls.
The effects of online on dating are way overblown by dating coaches.
The competition now is LESS because most men are way less masculine and clueless about attraction due to media brainwashing.
Let them continue to waste hours swiping away and posting content on Instagram whilst you put in real effort in the real world.
The more they post on Instagram, the less mysterious they seem and more desperate they seem, and further eliminate themselves as competition. They are just entertainment to girls playing on their phone. The aloof, inaccessible guys always win in every era.
People who say this have no idea what they’re talking about.
Very few attractive women meet men from Instagram or Tinder. The ones that do aren’t usually attractive.
Online dating does NOT appeal to hypergamy because men using social media to meet women are instantly low status. ‘Matching’ kills the suspense of natural attraction.
This ‘global sexual market place’ talk is just an idea used to put you in a fear mindset. No attractive girls are interested in dating men outside their city. 99% of girls in NY are dating men in NY. Girls in small rural towns are even more likely to stick to their own. Girls being flown out to Dubai are a very specific niche which has always existed and doesn’t apply for the girls you are talking to.
If anything, the current hookup culture favours men more than any other era in history. Sex within three dates has become a social norm, even for the most average men.
The reasons for declining sex are more due to the increase of porn access, reduction of testosterone levels, over reliance on internet/WhatsApp as a means of communication, lack of social skills etc
Online dating and social media has just confused women to their SMV - seeing other girls get thousands more ‘likes’ etc has made many woman more self conscious than ever. Having 10,000 followers means nothing in 2021… 20 years ago it would have meant you were some kind of celebrity. The standards have become unrealistic and unattainable.
Online dating - again, women match with more creeps than normal guys, and that further leaves them feeling confused - before online dating it would have been hard for a creep to communicate sexually with a hot girl so overtly/directly. Furthermore, women know guys are swiping right on all girls, which makes it less of a SMV confirmation…online dating and social media is just a pastime for most girls.
The effects of online on dating are way overblown by dating coaches.
The competition now is LESS because most men are way less masculine and clueless about attraction due to media brainwashing.
Let them continue to waste hours swiping away and posting content on Instagram whilst you put in real effort in the real world.
The more they post on Instagram, the less mysterious they seem and more desperate they seem, and further eliminate themselves as competition. They are just entertainment to girls playing on their phone. The aloof, inaccessible guys always win in every era.
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