Stop Studying, Start Doing!

[Warrior74]

Just another friendly reminder that you can only really learn from experience. You have to get out there and try, be willing to fail, failure is how you learn.

I was out with some friends last night and they sat in the corner, looking and commenting on hot girls going by...they never even tried. These are two good looking guys. Me, I got out there and tried. I met a few people, no sparks or major attraction, but I got out there. I met guys and girls, spoke to everyone and just enjoyed myself. It was great. I ended up getting two potential clients for my business just by talking to some guys I met. Which to me is way better than getting laid, getting paid!

Now how do you think the girls will remember? The cool guy who was social talking to everyone, or the two guys sitting in the corner gawking at everyone who walks by?

Go out and have fun! Be social, interact with people.

 

[Lexington]

Also, watch DJs succeed in the real world. I've become good friends with a guy who is a very smooth operator. The dude is good looking, but he gets far more tail than other much better looking dudes I know. Yesterday, he was working this gorgeous babe and I was taking mental notes (at the same time I was working on another girl).

It's one thing to read about all these techniques and principles, but it's another to see them in action. If possible, try to get in a social circle with a guy who regularly lands the hotties and take notes.

I lived with a guy in college who used to land babes left and right. Back then, I was a total AFC though and I attributed all his success to looks. Now that I look back, there was probably a wealth of information I could have picked up from this guy. It's a shame I didn't make more of an effort to tap into this great resource.

 

[Solomon]

Just another friendly reminder that you can only really learn from experience. You have to get out there and try, be willing to fail, failure is how you learn.

I was out with some friends last night and they sat in the corner, looking and commenting on hot girls going by...they never even tried. These are two good looking guys. Me, I got out there and tried. I met a few people, no sparks or major attraction, but I got out there. I met guys and girls, spoke to everyone and just enjoyed myself. It was great. I ended up getting two potential clients for my business just by talking to some guys I met. Which to me is way better than getting laid, getting paid!

Now how do you think the girls will remember? The cool guy who was social talking to everyone, or the two guys sitting in the corner gawking at everyone who walks by?

Go out and have fun! Be social, interact with people.

c.s this

Yesterday I was doing the same, I was waaay to overdressed at this small ringy-a-ding-dive-bar (they wouldnt let us in, in the other bar because my buddies id expired...douch'e bag)

anyway I was having women just check me out like "who the **** is that.." hands down I was the best dressed guy

But back to the topic, I was talking to anyone and everyone, not trying to get numbers but just being social having fun, approached the hottest chick at the bar (hb8.25) my confidence was just peaking....

The thing is, you gotta have fun, and lot of peoples go out "sarging" just to sarge or get a number, warrior is right, getting paid>>>>getting laid

an old proverb a wise man once told me

You never lose women chasing money, but you lose money chasing women


now thank of that

p.s. @ LEx--I use to be an uber-afc man and a couple years ago, I was blessed to meet his natural, he would tell me these basic things, and I wouldn't belive him because I thought he only got buy on looks, this guy was smooth though, the ultimate alpha male, good looking, charismatic, funny and confident. He just didn't rely on his looks, he knew how to work the crowd, and get women and he did it without reading any of this pua crap, he was just super social and confident in himself and ablities

But one thing he made sure was that the girls qualfied themselves to him, he never went for the hottest for the sake of the hottest, but the cutest because the cute ones had **** going for them i.e. job/career, connections, personalties, etc etc
whilte the hot ones could only offer a ONS,

Something guys have to do more is have girls qualify themselves!!

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

This should be sticky

 

[Aragon034]

Warrior, you just reinforce my respect of you.

I had the same night tonight, people look at you different when they see that you're not afraid of approaching.

 

[SinJester]

Yep I definately agree! You have a lot more success when you aren't chasing tail and you are just having fun. Of course if you don't get out there and try you've got no chance.

I think it's funny that even though you are the guy actually approaching the guys who just sit there are quick to jump on all your rejections. You guys might (hopefully) have friends that aren't so insecure, but I've been through a lot like that. Although in the end you get a lot more respect.

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

We all need the wake up call now and then. I read through this site when I'm at work and it pumps me up to start socializing as soon as I get out of work. Sometimes I stop at the mall, visit my friend, all pumped up, chatting with strangers.

You will be the same person in five years as you are today except for the people you meet and the books you read.

an old proverb a wise man once told me

You never lose women chasing money, but you lose money chasing women


now thank of that

I think I love my Wife, don't they tell that to Chris Rock's character? Ha

 

[Canadian Catnip]

A coward dies a thousand deaths. A soldier dies but once- 2Pac

I don't think 2pac came up with that quote.

 

[darkme_legendary]

You have to get out there and try, be willing to fail,

Good Point.

failure is how you learn.

Failure is how you fail. Getting out of your comfort zone & adjusting your behavior based on your experience is how you learn.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Bump

 

[Drewskie]

Bump....Warrior is quickly becoming one of my favorite posters

 

[Count Chocola]

I agree with this! But sadly... most people want the easy way out, and if it requires effort, they are unmotivated. Doing changes your perspective, and experience, and that changes your images of life.