"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Stop Smoking?

culsoreisearo

New Member
Joined
Nov 8, 2007
Messages
1
Reaction score
0
hi guys!
how can i stop smoking? i tried to quit many times now but somehow i start it again and again..
who knows some tricks? someone tried hypnosis or s.o. like that? i don't believe in a 'magic pill'
but there must be a way.
thx culsoreisearo
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

KarmaSutra

Banned
Joined
Oct 13, 2005
Messages
4,818
Reaction score
142
Age
53
Location
Padron Reserve maduro in hand while finishing my b
There is no trick. You have to want to quit. That's it. There are aids to help you stay off of them but the decision comes down to whether or not you truly want to quit or not.
 

kdnash82

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 5, 2006
Messages
530
Reaction score
8
Location
A land near you
KarmaSutra is absolutely right. About 2 years ago, I decided that I wanted to try to quit. I bought some patches and those worked for about a month. I was happy with myself, but then started back up again. Later on, I tried to quit again. I bought more patches and those gave me headaches. That lasted about 1 week.

One day, I was out on my balcony and lit up a cigarette. It was the worst tasting thing I ever had in my life. I felt sick to my stomach. I exhaled and threw up over the side of the balcony. I put out the cigarette. Since that day, I have not ever had a craving for cigarettes. At times, I go out to clubs and hang around people that smoke. The smoke doesn't bother me. When I get home and smell my clothes from the previous day, I get sick again.

You just have to want to quit. You don't need any aids, or swinging watches. Just want it.
 

Ken785

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 2, 2004
Messages
1,910
Reaction score
22
Location
California
how hard is it to tell yourself to not pick up a cigarette??

Wanna know how i quit?? I ran out of cigarettes one day and said..

"fvck it...i quit...im tired of waking up in the morning with my lungs feeling all chard anyway.."

been 3 months now and i feel great...cravings are gone except for sometimes when im stressed, but i still tell myself no.
 

Dilberto

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 21, 2007
Messages
221
Reaction score
2
I have one year smoke-free, and it was kinda easy. The BIG PART was that I was through with smoking. After smoking for 23 years- I simply got tired of the daily hacking coughs, the huge lung cookies, and the odor.

At first, I did have to rely on the nicotine gum- for the first three months. After that- I just kept forgetting to buy the gum and said, "I don't need this either". Now, I can ride my mountain bike up a 10% uphill grade four miles, without a rest. My doctor is extremely proud of me. He said at the rate I am going- my body will repair itself like it NEVER SMOKED.......in less than 5 years.

Increase your LIFE EXPECTANCY................quit the butts NOW.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Top