Stop Saying "I Love You" So Much

[Harry Wilmington]

Hey guys!

So, you ever wonder why it is that, when you finally confess your feelings to a woman and say the words "I Love You" that she starts to retreat? Why is it that a woman's reaction to those words works so well in the movies, but so horribly in real life? And how can a man go about making a woman know he loves her without chasing her away?

Check it out by clicking HERE!

-Harry Wilmington

 

[adam225]

I won't say it anyway. If she says it to me the most I'll say is "the same to you".

 

[Brighty]

Hey guys!

So, you ever wonder why it is that, when you finally confess your feelings to a woman and say the words "I Love You" that she starts to retreat? Why is it that a woman's reaction to those words works so well in the movies, but so horribly in real life? And how can a man go about making a woman know he loves her without chasing her away?

Check it out by clicking HERE!

-Harry Wilmington

I have literally never had that happen. You should know where you stand and where the relationship is before saying such a profound thing to the woman you're in a relationship with, and she won't have a damn problem with it. In fact, odds are, she'll retort with the exact same thing :yes:

 

[Harry Wilmington]

I go more into depth about this in the podcast... but needless to say, i go across your point as well, which is that, at some point, its okay to say those words but with a few IMPORTANT TO KNOW restrictions. Overkill is not your friend, nor is saying it too soon...

 

[Zarky]

I haven't told a woman I loved her since 2008.

 

[corrector]

I dated a divorced woman last year and constantly exchanged "I love you" as we made out. It worked out so well, that I held her hands and she held mine, we had intense make out sessions that were mind-blowing, and we always texted each other and said "I love you" to each other.

Guess what. We planned to marry each other. Eventually I broke up with her because I decided I was committing adultery with another man's wife. You see Jesus says if you marry someone who is divorced then you commit adultery with them. I talked to this woman's ex-husband and found out the truth about her and simply believed her ex-husband over her who was a pastor of a church.

I went on no contact with her, and she never got back to me. Those "I love you" words are good for toilet paper. Just like that retarded song she shared with me "I won't give up on you" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TdN5GyTl8K0 . All good for a steam-roller to pour our asphalt on a road.

Hopefully the next girl will be worth it and not be a bundle of issues so I love you doesn't mean I'm going to be your b1tch for life.

 

[devilkingx2]

there are only 3 reasons to say I love you to a woman

1. she said it first

2. you want to get her to do something

3. you want her to forgive you for something

#1 is because not saying it back will likely wreck the relationship or cause a big fight or something, and because I love you is like commitment, the guy doesn't ask for it he waits for the girl to ask for it and decides for himself what happens next.

#2 really only applies if you're still super young and sexual stuff is still a big deal to girls or if you're trying to rush it(and found a girl who'll be happy you said I love you very early).

#3 only applies if you send d*ck pics to her sister or have sex with someone else or if she finds your hardcore porn collection or something.

understand?

also,

I dated a divorced woman last year and constantly exchanged "I love you" as we made out. It worked out so well, that I held her hands and she held mine, we had intense make out sessions that were mind-blowing, and we always texted each other and said "I love you" to each other.

Guess what. We planned to marry each other. Eventually I broke up with her because I decided I was committing adultery with another man's wife. You see Jesus says if you marry someone who is divorced then you commit adultery with them. I talked to this woman's ex-husband and found out the truth about her and simply believed her ex-husband over her who was a pastor of a church.

I went on no contact with her, and she never got back to me. Those "I love you" words are good for toilet paper. Just like that retarded song she shared with me "I won't give up on you" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TdN5GyTl8K0 . All good for a steam-roller to pour our asphalt on a road.

Hopefully the next girl will be worth it and not be a bundle of issues so I love you doesn't mean I'm going to be your b1tch for life.

WTF is this?

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Nice job on the pod cast OP. Had flash backs hearing about the 3-4 month range. Sometimes I think these b*tches just like collecting how many guys they can get to fall for them. I pretty sure she had multiple ex's still contacting here and telling her this ****.
The first time they say it is the ultimate sh*t test! Round 1: NOW YOU SAY! Insecure, needy chicks are emotional suckers.

I got a nice sweet note on my car love you blah blah, then a week later she says we are done. Told her I can burn the note she left me cause it didn't mean sh*t. Then the broad has the nerve to come to my house the next day expecting me to say it!.....Bwahaha PATHETIC, actually pretty proud of myself for not saying it.

Dated this other girl, over a year. I never said it once, I think I wrote it in a card. Oh sh*t I might have said it when I broke up with her, loved her but had to let her go, she wasn't happy anyway.

Ex-wf she was pretty secure with herself, I think that was around the 6-7 month range.

I use the same methodology with the word "Sorry" for some reason I can't stand this word cause some broads just use it waaay to f-ing much. I replace it with "my bad".