"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Stop replying to ItsOnNow

dannyegg4575

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Stop replying to ItsOnNow until he's willing to get out there and do something with his life!

I'm going to put on a challenge for ItsOnNow.

I'm going to call him on coming back here night after night with useless threads.
He's either going to go out there and experiment and come back with real pick up or dating questions or he's going to be ignored.

If you're with me, don't reply to anymore of his thread until they're quality questions.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dannyegg4575

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no, you don't have to.

please read title.
 

Interceptor

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Danny, I think you're right. I really think he needs more therapy.
We've become his crutch, and he is abusing it.
ION, you need to get out there and do something with your life.

You may realize that by not living up to your potential and not fully appreciating the gifts of wisdom and help you have received, that you may find yourself going without it, alone....
 

nando

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You guys should also ignore the poster 'justiceseeker' he has been exposed as a lying racist fraud who steals pics of muscular males and claims they are him. Strong gay if you ask me. I think he needs therapy too.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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War Against Betaism

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nando said:
You guys should also ignore the poster 'justiceseeker' he has been exposed as a lying racist fraud who steals pics of muscular males and claims they are him. Strong gay if you ask me. I think he needs therapy too.
LOL wow is that true
 

MikeYikes122

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ION is stuck in the SoSuave matrix. It would be best to ignore him - for his development and our own.
 

nando

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War Against Betaism said:
LOL wow is that true
Yeah bro, the mods deleted the thread that exposed his lying ass though!
 

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As long as we're on the "Ignore such and such" subject, stop replying to DJorBUST. He disrespects the same people that give him advice.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KontrollerX

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Add SunnyD and Fela Kuti to that list.

These three keep coming to us with problems they don't want solved because they crave and love drama.
 
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