"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Stop replying to ItsOnNow

dannyegg4575

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
311
Reaction score
11
Stop replying to ItsOnNow until he's willing to get out there and do something with his life!

I'm going to put on a challenge for ItsOnNow.

I'm going to call him on coming back here night after night with useless threads.
He's either going to go out there and experiment and come back with real pick up or dating questions or he's going to be ignored.

If you're with me, don't reply to anymore of his thread until they're quality questions.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

dannyegg4575

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
311
Reaction score
11
no, you don't have to.

please read title.
 

Interceptor

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 25, 2007
Messages
2,609
Reaction score
135
Location
Florida
Danny, I think you're right. I really think he needs more therapy.
We've become his crutch, and he is abusing it.
ION, you need to get out there and do something with your life.

You may realize that by not living up to your potential and not fully appreciating the gifts of wisdom and help you have received, that you may find yourself going without it, alone....
 

nando

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2007
Messages
213
Reaction score
1
You guys should also ignore the poster 'justiceseeker' he has been exposed as a lying racist fraud who steals pics of muscular males and claims they are him. Strong gay if you ask me. I think he needs therapy too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

War Against Betaism

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2007
Messages
1,600
Reaction score
28
Location
California
nando said:
You guys should also ignore the poster 'justiceseeker' he has been exposed as a lying racist fraud who steals pics of muscular males and claims they are him. Strong gay if you ask me. I think he needs therapy too.
LOL wow is that true
 

MikeYikes122

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 16, 2003
Messages
839
Reaction score
30
ION is stuck in the SoSuave matrix. It would be best to ignore him - for his development and our own.
 

nando

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2007
Messages
213
Reaction score
1
War Against Betaism said:
LOL wow is that true
Yeah bro, the mods deleted the thread that exposed his lying ass though!
 

r0cky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 23, 2008
Messages
1,046
Reaction score
30
As long as we're on the "Ignore such and such" subject, stop replying to DJorBUST. He disrespects the same people that give him advice.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

KontrollerX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2005
Messages
4,476
Reaction score
182
Add SunnyD and Fela Kuti to that list.

These three keep coming to us with problems they don't want solved because they crave and love drama.
 
Top