"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stop reading and do something

Don Corleone

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Most of us guys on this site have read hundreds maybe even thousands of posts. Most of them make sense, and we take them into consideration.

We might understand these techniques, but when the opportunity presents itself to actually go out there and apply what we have learned and read, we fold up and go into the same old wuss routine.

How about this. Instead of reading post after post, go out, and actually apply what you have learned. You can set goals, use techniques, use tricks, but whatever you do atleast do it 100%.

If something you learned on this site isnt working particularly well for you then try something else, and try it 100%.

After a while, you will find your style. You might not see perfect results right away but your fear of approaching and meeting women will soon go away.

Make sure you try something because if you don't then you will simply be someone who knows exactly what to do but doesn't ever try anything.

No one is born with every skill. From the moment you are born you have to learn everything, how to talk, how to walk, etc. The only things you dont have to learn are things like breathing, eating etc.

Don't expect to just know how to walk up to a female and get a girlfriend. You have to practice. You didn't ride your bike on your first attempt.

Even the best Don Juan's had to start somewhere. The majority of men aren't born with skillz.

Turn off your computer and go meet someone. Remember, by just talking to a girl you can always gain something: experience, a new friend, a one night stand, or a wife.


"I made her an offer she couldn't refuse"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hardwork

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Tips.
 

smokez01

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im with you here, ive read so much but acted on so little

its crazy i tell you, i see so many hot girls everyday, but instead of approaching, i just shrug it off, like i dont care, i dont know what is wrong with me
 
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