“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Stop posting threads on "how to pick up hot babes"!!

CLOONEY

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Man this is starting to annoy me, everyone keeps asking "how to pick up hot babes", like it is a REALLY big challenge, and you guys call yourselves DJ's?? Just run your normal game and throw in a few more neg-hits! that is all you need, dont treat them anything different to a 6-7!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Maybe not for you Mr. Movie Star. ;)

Just kidding.

Anyway, I think for most guys, they may actually have to do something different to get thier "hot" chicks.

Stay with me here...

I think guys judge "looks" two different ways:

1. Most guys will judge 'looks' on body, clothes, smell, makeup, jewelry, skin tone, and hair. If you have a thin girl with nice tits and ass, tan, tight pink clothes, shiny hair, and diamond earings (even if her facial structure is only a little above average) most guys would rate her as HOT.

Why is it that some guys complain that a woman sometimes turns them off when they see her without make up? What else can explain women's obsession with skin and hair products?

2. Some guys will judge 'looks' as if they are looking for a model. Only a "natural beauty" gets high scores with these guys. Makeup, hair, or anything else is seen right through. The girl rates the same if she is in rags after just waking up, or all dolled out for a night on the town. These are the kind of looks that you really can't change.

I go for the natural beauties. I can see through the hair and makeup and know if the girl is actually pretty without it. The only make up that fools me is the black eyeliner or the crazy colored sh*t that goes on the eyelids.

You still with me?

Okay, now you are probably like me (judging chicks by #2) and wondering WTF? Girls that rate as HOT for us are just BORN that way, and either they are or aren't, and there isn't anything they can do about it.

That is to say that personality won't affect our 'judgement' of them, because they can be the cleanest, most fitness-friendly, best dresser, etc. and we can still see through all of that.

But for OTHER guys, the only girls that are HOT are the ones that DO do thier makeup nice, and work for that perfect body, and spend 3 hours doing hair, and 2 doing makeup.

See what I am getting at?

What type of girl DOES all of that stuff?

Well, ALL OF THEM!

Yeah, to an extent, but if I gathered a handfull of MY "perfect 10" girls and compared them to a handfull of Random-Dude's, mine would spend MUCH less time doing all of those things.

(As an aside, I have noticed that the most asthetic women to look at [i.e. the model types] are less "girly" than other hot women, and sometimes have slightly deeper voices, along with being smarter and more responsable.)

Get it? A girl that gets all dolled up for the night is looking for certain things from men, whereas another girl (who you and me may consider to be 'hotter') may not be on the lookout for certain things.

Before I started to dress nice and everything, most "dolled up" hot girls didn't even give me the time of day. Yet, I still managed to snag both a Josie Maran look-a-like and some girl that was almost as hot as Elisabeth Shue. Mind you, these girls didn't put NEARLY the amount of effort into makeup/clothes/etc. that some others do. Jeans and t-shirts were the norm.

So, in my case, I didn't have to change anything to get with the chicks that I considered HOT. But peoples perceptions differ, and some guys may have to change a few things before they can swang with Miss Thang.

Long post, but I think I have solved a little conundrum which has confused me about the way I look at women, and the way other guys look at women.

Most guys rate women on how they FEEL about her. More points the more a chick turns you on. I look at women more like a work of art or something. She can really turn me on, yet I realize that she is no beauty.

If anything, I knew whether or not to head out at the end of the night or the next morning, hahaha!
 

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Yeah no more threads on how to pick up hot babes , lets have more threads whining about wether the girl in the copy room likes me or not or wether to call a girl after she got a restraining order on me...
 

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I definitely go for #2's....:D

I'm so sick of reading every thread and the dood says, I met a HB10 blah blah blah. I guess they don't realize that 10's are 1 in a 1000!! Any ***** can by nice make up and workout and get plastic surgery. But very few are born with the natural beauty that us picky guys look for.



PIMP
 

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If it looks like gold, smells like gold, feels like gold... I'd say it's gold. Guess that makes me easy, huh?
 
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Originally posted by CLOONEY
Man this is starting to annoy me, everyone keeps asking "how to pick up hot babes", like it is a REALLY big challenge, and you guys call yourselves DJ's?? Just run your normal game and throw in a few more neg-hits! that is all you need, dont treat them anything different to a 6-7!
On point!
 

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Originally posted by icepick
Maybe not for you Mr. Movie Star. ;)

Just kidding.

Anyway, I think for most guys, they may actually have to do something different to get thier "hot" chicks.

Stay with me here...

I think guys judge "looks" two different ways:

1. Most guys will judge 'looks' on body, clothes, smell, makeup, jewelry, skin tone, and hair. If you have a thin girl with nice tits and ass, tan, tight pink clothes, shiny hair, and diamond earings (even if her facial structure is only a little above average) most guys would rate her as HOT.

Why is it that some guys complain that a woman sometimes turns them off when they see her without make up? What else can explain women's obsession with skin and hair products?

2. Some guys will judge 'looks' as if they are looking for a model. Only a "natural beauty" gets high scores with these guys. Makeup, hair, or anything else is seen right through. The girl rates the same if she is in rags after just waking up, or all dolled out for a night on the town. These are the kind of looks that you really can't change.

I go for the natural beauties. I can see through the hair and makeup and know if the girl is actually pretty without it. The only make up that fools me is the black eyeliner or the crazy colored sh*t that goes on the eyelids.

You still with me?

Okay, now you are probably like me (judging chicks by #2) and wondering WTF? Girls that rate as HOT for us are just BORN that way, and either they are or aren't, and there isn't anything they can do about it.

That is to say that personality won't affect our 'judgement' of them, because they can be the cleanest, most fitness-friendly, best dresser, etc. and we can still see through all of that.

But for OTHER guys, the only girls that are HOT are the ones that DO do thier makeup nice, and work for that perfect body, and spend 3 hours doing hair, and 2 doing makeup.

See what I am getting at?

What type of girl DOES all of that stuff?

Well, ALL OF THEM!

Yeah, to an extent, but if I gathered a handfull of MY "perfect 10" girls and compared them to a handfull of Random-Dude's, mine would spend MUCH less time doing all of those things.

(As an aside, I have noticed that the most asthetic women to look at [i.e. the model types] are less "girly" than other hot women, and sometimes have slightly deeper voices, along with being smarter and more responsable.)

Get it? A girl that gets all dolled up for the night is looking for certain things from men, whereas another girl (who you and me may consider to be 'hotter') may not be on the lookout for certain things.

Before I started to dress nice and everything, most "dolled up" hot girls didn't even give me the time of day. Yet, I still managed to snag both a Josie Maran look-a-like and some girl that was almost as hot as Elisabeth Shue. Mind you, these girls didn't put NEARLY the amount of effort into makeup/clothes/etc. that some others do. Jeans and t-shirts were the norm.

So, in my case, I didn't have to change anything to get with the chicks that I considered HOT. But peoples perceptions differ, and some guys may have to change a few things before they can swang with Miss Thang.

Long post, but I think I have solved a little conundrum which has confused me about the way I look at women, and the way other guys look at women.

Most guys rate women on how they FEEL about her. More points the more a chick turns you on. I look at women more like a work of art or something. She can really turn me on, yet I realize that she is no beauty.

If anything, I knew whether or not to head out at the end of the night or the next morning, hahaha!
OK Icepick i think I get ya!! haha. Thanks for the thought! But what you are saying is physical, yes these guys on this site should already be taking care of their clothes, physical appearance etc. Most of the posts I am talking about are the asking how should they "act" around these babes. If they already have their lives sorted, and are looking smooth (as they should be), then they just have to act themselves, be funny, throw in some negs and they will be fine.

I mean seriously I see some guys who have been around on these boards as long as me or longer and they are fine with getting chicks. But then they come accross a HOT one (wether that be natural beauty or a girl all dolled up, to them it is still a "HB10") and have a chance with her and then they start second guessing themselves, asking how should they act, etc etc
There is nothing different with these girls, except that most picks ups are guys treating them like gods and over analysiing things.

They are still woman just run your game with a few more negs and they can "swang with Miss Thang".

However I can see your point, yes sometimes these girls who do get dolled up are looking for something when they go out to nightclubs, but usually these are the girls who are always dolled up anyways, and usually seem to be more *****y than "natural beauties". They are also more insecure and run more games. Not worth it in my book! The naturals are usually sweeter, nicer, smarter and more beautiful!
 
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