"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Stop posting the same stupid questions over and over again.

SamTheHobit

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And think for yourself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SamTheHobit said:
And think for yourself.
Humans would not be alive today hadn't it been for our ability to learn from 2nd hand experience. We don't have to make all the mistakes everyone before us have; not to ask for advice is ignorant.
We can't either expect everyone to use the search feature; neither do we have proper stickies, and the DJB can be hard to find (bottom left of the page).

Sam, I would really appreciate if you could drop the negative and unhelpful attitude I observe in you.
 

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Some of these questions are ridiculous... 'should I text back' 'what if she has a boyfriend' 'what if she is ignoring me' etc. It's ridiculous, it's bordering on spam.
 

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That's the place where they're at right now. Guys come here in need of help. There's nothing wrong with being clueless and asking questions in order to learn. Just because an answer may be obvious to me or you doesn't mean that it should be obvious to all.

Instead of berating clueless men about their honest questions, you might do well to accept them and educate them. Never berate anyone for asking an honest question. If someone is given advice and they refuse to take it, that's a different story... berate to your heart's content.

But newbies will always be trickling in here with the same questions. They deserve to be treated with respect as they're trying to get a handle on this aspect of life and they're to be commended for it.
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
Humans would not be alive today hadn't it been for our ability to learn from 2nd hand experience. We don't have to make all the mistakes everyone before us have; not to ask for advice is ignorant.
We can't either expect everyone to use the search feature; neither do we have proper stickies, and the DJB can be hard to find (bottom left of the page).

Sam, I would really appreciate if you could drop the negative and unhelpful attitude I observe in you.
I agree, second hand experience is very helpful, but what most of these people think they can do is rely SOLELY on 2nd hand experience to get girls. Going out and attempting it for yourself might be hard, but you have to balance your 1st/2nd hand experiences and not weigh too much on either.

An example would be, if most of the guys on here were handed the girl of their dreams, would they be able to keep her? If she came up to him at a club and showed immense interest in him, would he be able to keep her interest high? or would he freeze up and chode out? Most likely he would lose her in a few days. After reading the bible and **** like that STOP READING AND GO OUT AND TRY THIS **** FOR YOURSELF. See what works, **** up, make mistakes, and learn from it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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