When it comes to women I think your best off just doing what feels natural. Text a girl when you feel like and spin plates, don't worry about going ghost or playing silly games with these stupid chicks. I'm not saying they don't work...they do...but for every chick that you get playing these stupid alpha male games you'll lose out on one who fears a player. My point is it evens itself out...long as your always talking to multiple women you should be ok and won't come across as too desperate or clingy. I've had a far better success rate with bedding women who I wasn't crazy about...than ones who I really liked. I think probably because I didn't give a **** about the outcome.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
stop playing games
- Thread starter captain55
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
