"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Stop over-analyzing!

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Jhcl4000

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I've seen so many topics on this forum where guys are asking questions like:

"Does she like me?"

"Does this mean she likes me?"

"How do I know she likes me?"

ECT... ECT... ECT... I've also read about so many ridiculous IOI's that they seem like just THAT. RIDICULOUS. If she smiles at you, she likes you, if she doesn't smile, she likes you. If she makes eye contact, she likes you, if she doesn't make eye contact, she's intimidated by you and likes you. She crosses her legs towards you, her pupils dilate, she smiles when she's around you, she doesn't turn her back to you, she does the M.J dance from Thriller. Okay, let me get to the point.

IOI'S DO NOT MATTER.

There is no point to over-analyzing your situation with a girl, or thinking about that one IOI you may have gotten that one time, because it's not going to help your situation with her.

Once again, IOI's DO NOT MATTER! The only thing that matters is when you ask for her number/ask her out and she says yes/no. The only time you will know FOR SURE that she is interested is when you ask her out, she says yes, and you two go out. Everything else is fvcking gray and fvcking bullsh!t.

STOP OVER-ANALYZING! THE ONLY MINDSET YOU SHOULD HAVE IS THIS: ALL WOMEN WANT ME!

So go out there and JUST FVCKING DO IT! It's the only way you're going to know FOR SURE.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lexington

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This is fantastic advice. It's impossible to read with any degree of certainty if a girl likes you or not. You just get after them and see what happens. A lot of the guys here don't have success because they only ever pursue a girl if she gives strong "IOIs." Eff that. Walk up to her, talk to her, see if you can hit it off. If not, just forget her and move on to the next one. It's that simple.
 
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