Stop mixing the LTR mentality with the PUA mentality..

[Tha Realnezz]

It's two completley different things.

If all you want is sex:

Then hit the gym,upgrade your wadrobe,ride,home,etc...and start hitting the clubs and do the GW method.

You like a chic,she's giving you the eye,you man up and go talk to her and try to date/fawkclose.All sexual convo nothing really in between..

^this is easy beleive or not,alot of women want this and you don't have to be pretty either.

Now if you want an LTR /SEX BUDDYyou should NOT treat your girl how some people on this site want you to.

You are the prize doesn't fly here.

You will be nexting girls non-stop for the slightests sh!t.

Women who are in a relationship expect to be wined and dined & they expect to be emotionally taken care off.

This "**** her if she doesn't do what I want" menatality is a PUA's mentality.

A guy who only want sex with random chics and doesn't care much if he accumulates and has a steady flock of girls at his disposal.

If you want your girl to stick around,you're gonna have to be bend a bit.

Stop mixing the two cuz they are completley and utterly different.

 

[Obsidian]

This "**** her if she doesn't do what I want" menatality is a PUA's mentality.

I totally disagree. Tolerating crap isn't manly.

and I thought you were too far above this forum to actually give advice

 

[Tha Realnezz]

^i'm not really committed to it.

And "taking crap" and just nexting girls is two different things.

 

[Obsidian]

If a girl doesn't get with the program, you next her because you need to focus your energy on spinning other plate(s) that will cooperate with you. Real women want masculine men similarly to the way hors do; they just don't act as masculine themselves.

Believe me, I know from experience that refusing to next girls will NOT guarantee you an LTR. It will usually just add to your frustration.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Man it depends on the situation.If a girl never calls you back or never seems to want to go out with you anymore then she just doesn't like you..

 

[Vypros]

I get confused on abbreviations.

What the hell is PUA and LTR?

I'm assuming LTR is "Long Term Relationship", but I can't seem to wrap my mind around what PUA means.

 

[Raikojo17]

I get confused on abbreviations.

What the hell is PUA and LTR?

I'm assuming LTR is "Long Term Relationship", but I can't seem to wrap my mind around what PUA means.

PUA= pick up artist

and great advice to the OP. i often see guys getting the two mindsets mixed up, then they wonder y they dont have GF's and their girls fvck other guys

 

[TruthHurts]

the truth.... techniques are the same for everything.. the only difference is that if you want a LTR with a girl, make sure she matches you culturally/mentally.. i.e. are you okay with a girl that sleeps with a man first time she met? etc. etc.
in otherwords, you have to ask, am i okay with her level of education, family background etc. etc.... but technique is the same... if she not calling back, means she dont care enough.. Dont try to change a duck into a chicken.

 

[comic_relief]

It's two completley different things.

Stop mixing the two cuz they are completley and utterly different.

BULLSH!T, it is only different if you let it become different. I know it is because I have gotten all of my girlfriends that same way. Treat all girls the same and just be your best self.

If all you want is sex:

Then hit the gym,upgrade your wadrobe,ride,home,etc...and start hitting the clubs and do the GW method.

You like a chic,she's giving you the eye,you man up and go talk to her and try to date/fawkclose.All sexual convo nothing really in between..

Whats the problem with this for getting a girlfriend? I fail to see the difference.
1.) See target
2.) Super sexualize self
3.) Man up and talk to her (small talk mainly)
4.) Close (whatever it may be)

not much different. The next meetings are the same though. My girlfriend currently is treated like the nicest piece of crap that there is. I treat her the same way that I would an ONS. No difference at all.

Now if you want an LTR /SEX BUDDYyou should NOT treat your girl how some people on this site want you to.

You are the prize doesn't fly here.

You will be nexting girls non-stop for the slightests sh!t.

Women who are in a relationship expect to be wined and dined & they expect to be emotionally taken care off.

What the hell are you babbling about? You are the prize doesn't fly? Stop spouting out your verbal diarreha. I know that I am the most important thing in my life at this time and if I am getting stepped on, I will WALK AWAY from it. A girlfriend is to add to your life, not take away. If anyone ever gets that messed up, life will become really sh!tty. I have had it happen.

In the beginning of any relationship, you should treat all girls the same. textbook DJism.

Funny, I haven't wined nor dined my current girlfriend, and I have been fine on all accounts.

You do make a point though worth mentioning on the emotional wellbeing part. they do, but I take care of all girls emotionally as much as I can unless it is boy problems, than I will send them off to their girlfriends. Still treating them all the same.

comic_relief

 

[PRMoon]

I agree that there is a different mentality between someone seeking a relationship and those who aspire to be pick up artist. I'm an acomplished PUA but relationships are definatley not my cup of tea so i don't really work towards them. Instead i focus on learning how to game girls till they don't know what to think anymore. It's kinda sadistic but eventually i'll evolve into a relationship person.

Long message short, focusing on being a PUA is just one road to take, and though it may be difficult it has its rewards in the end. Relationships are even more difficult becuase of they consume your time and your experience will be shorter overall so your progess and development will also be slowed. The choice is yours but don't think they are one in the same.