"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'll take it a step further.

My wife has been out of town for about a week with my son visiting her brother who just got out the hosptial for a broken leg, she's taking care of him and his stuff until he can do so on his own. she will be gone for about another week.

this is the longest i've been away from my wife since i have met her. this is the longest i've been without sex for a very long time. i don't masturbate, at least anymore i don't. i haven't really had a need to and even now i don't want to.,

for the first few days, she left monday, things were pretty normal. but over the last few days, i've been just a little freaking ball of energy. I haven't had this much energy in a very long time. I went to the gym yesterday and it was my day off, i've been getting crap done, needing less and less slept i think i got 4 hours of sleep last night and popped right up.

my wife and i, even now we have alot of sex. we both like sex. 2-3, sometimes 4-5 times a week. at least every other day. sometimes it's really hard good sex, sometimes it's maintenance sex, but usually we fvck.

maybe i need to revisit this. I'm not saying i need to become a monk but maybe if i cut back to 1-2 times a week i can have this much energy all the time because have t tell you I'm really digging this ****. I'm thinking clear, i'm very very energetic. took my dog for a walk for the first time in forever, did a 50% water change in both of my fish tanks. this is pretty cool
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So you think jerking off to mental imagery doesn't have the same effect, secretasianman?
 
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