pooparu
Senior Don Juan
Alright guys, after a break from the board, some new experiences, and thoughs I think that I've stumbled upon something that alot of people up here don't realize.
Sarging is absolutely ridiculous. Yes I said it. Why?
Well here's the thing, when you go out with the intent to meet women, sarge, whatever, it puts uneeded thoughts/stress/etc on your mind and body. Instead, you need to craft a lifestyle that will integrate women into your life all the time. This ESPECIALLY goes for the high school/college kids that are not only always surrounded by women, but can get jobs with other women they're age. Just last night I number closed 2 girls at my job, and didn't even realize that I had pulled something off that 90% of people on this board freak the **** out about. You guys are freaking out because you are thinking about it. Instead, take a break, situate yourself where there are going to be women, hell make it a place where you are going to be FORCED to interact, then there's NO chance of you getting nervous/anxiety/etc, unless you want to lose you're job.
For the older DJs, I realize work isn't the best place, and I am younger than you so taking advice from me may seem crazy, but trust me, this is THE BEST WAY BAR NONE. When you get a core of clubs/stores/librariers/etc. you go to and the social proof comes naturally (that means you don't have to go around performing like a circus clown opening up sets to get them to like you), its ALOT more powerful than social proof somewhere for a night. Forming a genuine bond with peopl you encounter all the time is going to make you happier, AND get you better benefits, as well as social proof that matters. So work on getting place wehre women frequent that you like all the time and its natural to have conversations.
Also, on the matter of Kino, do the same thing, make it INTEGRATED in your life, you should be competent unconscious in areas like this. Twirl her hair in between your fingers, stroke her arms, her legs, give her sligh tsoft massages on her shoulders and then stop before giving her any more, make her wait and want it. It should be a natural thing, don't try to force anything, be in a stream of consciousness if you will.
Also, stop thinking you need an excuse to do **** with women. Women, if they find out even mildly attractive, will be interested in getting to know you more as long as you really don't **** up (and if you do who cares, life is too short), so as you or they are leaving all you say is, "Hey I'm running now, write you're number down and I'll call you later to hook up" (that hook up **** also leaves a little innuendo for her to nibble on in the back of her mind), this is while giving her you're cell.
Furthermore, realize every single woman is different, and as such some approaches aren't going to be successful. Some girls aren't overly sexual in nature (that's not to say they aren't overly sexual in bed
), so trying to spank them and go into kino around some of their fun spots might put them off. On the contrary some girls love it when you run up behind them, pin them on the wall and bite their neck or whisper something in her ear ("That wasn't nice I think I have to punish you" "You smell good", etc.), so just know that sometimes you are gonna have to switch up, have fun with it.
I'm sure there's more others can contribute, but all I'm saying is that techniques, game, etc are all worthless if you aren't in a place to use the, are afraid to use them, don't know what to say when a new woman comes along, or you can't follow up and get the number. Work on these just becoming as normal as going to work or school, and in time you won't even think about getting numbers, you'll be getting them from girls you LIKE and not ones you think you have an obligation to "sarge" because a website told you.
Peace.
Sarging is absolutely ridiculous. Yes I said it. Why?
Well here's the thing, when you go out with the intent to meet women, sarge, whatever, it puts uneeded thoughts/stress/etc on your mind and body. Instead, you need to craft a lifestyle that will integrate women into your life all the time. This ESPECIALLY goes for the high school/college kids that are not only always surrounded by women, but can get jobs with other women they're age. Just last night I number closed 2 girls at my job, and didn't even realize that I had pulled something off that 90% of people on this board freak the **** out about. You guys are freaking out because you are thinking about it. Instead, take a break, situate yourself where there are going to be women, hell make it a place where you are going to be FORCED to interact, then there's NO chance of you getting nervous/anxiety/etc, unless you want to lose you're job.
For the older DJs, I realize work isn't the best place, and I am younger than you so taking advice from me may seem crazy, but trust me, this is THE BEST WAY BAR NONE. When you get a core of clubs/stores/librariers/etc. you go to and the social proof comes naturally (that means you don't have to go around performing like a circus clown opening up sets to get them to like you), its ALOT more powerful than social proof somewhere for a night. Forming a genuine bond with peopl you encounter all the time is going to make you happier, AND get you better benefits, as well as social proof that matters. So work on getting place wehre women frequent that you like all the time and its natural to have conversations.
Also, on the matter of Kino, do the same thing, make it INTEGRATED in your life, you should be competent unconscious in areas like this. Twirl her hair in between your fingers, stroke her arms, her legs, give her sligh tsoft massages on her shoulders and then stop before giving her any more, make her wait and want it. It should be a natural thing, don't try to force anything, be in a stream of consciousness if you will.
Also, stop thinking you need an excuse to do **** with women. Women, if they find out even mildly attractive, will be interested in getting to know you more as long as you really don't **** up (and if you do who cares, life is too short), so as you or they are leaving all you say is, "Hey I'm running now, write you're number down and I'll call you later to hook up" (that hook up **** also leaves a little innuendo for her to nibble on in the back of her mind), this is while giving her you're cell.
Furthermore, realize every single woman is different, and as such some approaches aren't going to be successful. Some girls aren't overly sexual in nature (that's not to say they aren't overly sexual in bed
), so trying to spank them and go into kino around some of their fun spots might put them off. On the contrary some girls love it when you run up behind them, pin them on the wall and bite their neck or whisper something in her ear ("That wasn't nice I think I have to punish you" "You smell good", etc.), so just know that sometimes you are gonna have to switch up, have fun with it.I'm sure there's more others can contribute, but all I'm saying is that techniques, game, etc are all worthless if you aren't in a place to use the, are afraid to use them, don't know what to say when a new woman comes along, or you can't follow up and get the number. Work on these just becoming as normal as going to work or school, and in time you won't even think about getting numbers, you'll be getting them from girls you LIKE and not ones you think you have an obligation to "sarge" because a website told you.
Peace.