"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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stop locking my threads

iqqi

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this sh!t is getting ridiculous, to the point where other people on here are making threads about wTF are you closing these threads?

here's one

here is another

everyone b!tches and moans about this place going down the sh!tter because of questions like
confusing girl - when can I call her?
to smile or not to smile
what r the rules if she cancels?

and the such. but i start a topic, an interesting one with different opinions, and because of a few flamers, it gets closed?! why don't you go to the flamers, then? they are the usual suspects. and there is MUCH worse flaming going on than that in other threads! its like my threads are targeted for moderator assassination.

you are encouraging flamers to flame by closing my threads. smart.

maybe there needs to be some reconsideration of mods. because this sh!t is getting ridiculous. and please, reopen the thread, and combine the two new ones started in rebellion of the moderator, thanks.

flamers don't phase me at all. it is sh!t like this that makes me think i am wasting my time and energy here. if that is the goal, then it is sure to happen.


originally posted by Tesuquered I'm not sure that the "thread closed" procedure is, but I would suggest that it takes the vote of 3 mods to close a thread. Their discussion should remain internal--that's their right as mods. But a post of their collective opinion on closing/not closing a thread I would personally find facinating. Seriously. Most have been here awhile and I regret their reduced participation since becoming mods--it's happened with everyone I've seen who's become a mod. But I know they're still very involved. Run the site -- yes --- and I understand the need to be firm with certain members here, but cracking down on the few miscreants is beginning to impinge on serious, dedicated members here.
originally posted by ManOMan I have no clue what crazykids problem is these days, but iqqi started a really interesting thread and he decided to close it because of "too much flaming"

WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON AROUND HERE?? Jesus christ, since when is a threads productiveness based on Crazy Kids temprement that day?
originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover post script... I think crazykid is high - he admitted such - and he is delirious, although only momentarily so. He'll come to his senses tomorrow --- hopefully he don't close the whole damn sosuave site in his state of temporary delirium!!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Iqqi, I've read all the relevant threads, and I tend to agree with you. I have posted a thread in the Moderator's forum explaining my reasoning (I don't want to get into it in a public forum).

Because crazykid indicated that he was going to re-open the thread, but then apparently did not, I will re-open the thread.

Does this solve the issue to your satisfaction?
 

THA REALNESS

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BOOOOO!!!! BAN-hER ALReadY!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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THA REALNESS

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BOOOOO!!!! BAN-hER ALReadY!!:D
 

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Wow, the only time "tha realness" and I are in agreement.

Iqqi, maybe your posts get locked because they're stupid or boring. You are quite literally every single girl I've ever met in my life. Even down to the part where you think you are different and/or special. You're as normal as can be. And its funny that you think you're not.

I'm getting my internet cut off tomorrow, so don't bother replying.
 
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