"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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stop giving my ex rides

Chosen1

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Recently as I have stated I've been giving my ex rides to work. I feel as if I've been getting taken advantage of and I don't like it. She knows I'm talking to other females and I post freaky things on my myspace like I'm gonna do this and do that to them . She almost had an heart attack when I said me and this chick was gonna meet up (she thought I said eat her out). I think I'm gonna nip this in bud now. I'm gonna tell her me and mrs. Roberston are gonna be together and she wouldn't like it if I kept giving her rides. She keeps telling me she loves me but I don't feel it. I know I should probably just man up and tell her I can't do it but,this give me an great excuse.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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get it togther son!

Chosen1 said:
Recently as I have stated I've been giving my ex rides to work. I feel as if I've been getting taken advantage of and I don't like it. She knows I'm talking to other females and I post freaky things on my myspace like I'm gonna do this and do that to them . She almost had an heart attack when I said me and this chick was gonna meet up (she thought I said eat her out). I think I'm gonna nip this in bud now. I'm gonna tell her me and mrs. Roberston are gonna be together and she wouldn't like it if I kept giving her rides. She keeps telling me she loves me but I don't feel it. I know I should probably just man up and tell her I can't do it but,this give me an great excuse.
:eek: :confused: :down:

Bro, you killing me right now, last week you banged her, and now your chauffeuring her around to work?

geeze wtf is wrong with you? you need to start doing NC right now, the only time you should be talking to her is if its about the kids.

On another note, make a FR journal/Improvement journal, your threads are starting to spam the board

i seriously don't think your taking this **** serious, you can do better then her yet you seem hung up on her and now are making post about the broad on a weekly basis

wake up bro

:kick:
 

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Solomon said:
:eek: :confused: :down:

Bro, you killing me right now, last week you banged her, and now your chauffeuring her around to work?

geeze wtf is wrong with you? you need to start doing NC right now, the only time you should be talking to her is if its about the kids.

On another note, make a FR journal/Improvement journal, your threads are starting to spam the board

i seriously don't think your taking this **** serious, you can do better then her yet you seem hung up on her and now are making post about the broad on a weekly basis

wake up bro

:kick:
sorry man just got a lot on my mind and not just about her. She's part of it though got so much going on and nobody gives a ****. I really need to get my **** together I lost a lot of my intergrity just dealing with how fvcked up people are. I'll pledge allegiance to solomon though that I will do an self improvement/fr if I keep getting honest answers because I'm just not killing you I'm killing myself. look for it on tuesday for not I gotta do soul searching.
 
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