Stop Fearing Rejection

[guru1000]

ANY man who feels the pings of rejection has yet to reach his full potential, as it would seem. There was a time when rejection from a 7 or 8 pinged me. Today, it's laughable; perhaps even cute. Though, if a 10 rejects me, I feel a small ping. So even where I am today, there's more work to do, which is a prerequisite to any type of greatness, as explained below.

It's entirely feasible to remain unphased by rejection by subjecting yourself to much of it across the board throughout a multivariated spectrum and desensitizing yourself into an entirely apathetic state. But even such a state is temporal, subject to your continued application.

I personally don't seek to be entirely apathetic. Instead, I embrace rejection and failure. As with each failure, "motivation" incites to get better. It's easy to fall into the hands of complacency; the only thing that protects us from this diseased state of complacency is "felt" failure. Without "felt" rejection or failure (whether implicit or direct), little motivation incites to evolve. Hence why I purposefully seek to fail (though with a concerted effort to win). As without "felt" failure, I'm just another stagnant crop ready to meet life's fate on life's terms, not my own.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

ANY man who feels the pings of rejection has yet to reach his full potential. There was a time when from a 7 or 8 pinged me. Today, it's a laughable; perhaps even cute. Though, if a 10 rejects me, I feel a small ping. So even where I am today, there's more work to do, which is a prerequisite to any type of greatness, as explained below.

It's entirely feasible to remain unphased by rejection by subjecting yourself to much of it across the board throughout a multivariated spectrum and desensitizing yourself into an entirely apathetic state. But even such a state is temporal, subject to your continued application.

I personally don't seek to be entirely apathetic. Instead, I embrace rejection and failure. As with each failure, "motivation" incites to get better. It's easy to fall into the hands of complacency; the only thing that protects us from this diseased state of complacency is "felt" failure. Without "felt" rejection or failure (whether implicit or direct), little motivation incites to evolve. Hence why I purposefully seek to fail (though with a concerted effort to win). As without "felt" failure, I'm just another stagnant crop ready to meet life's fate on life's terms, not my own.

If you already have something there's nothing to lose.

 

[resilient]

I read a few acronym quotes the other day you guys might like:

F.A.I.L. - First Attempt In Learning. Never give up.
N.O. - Next Opportunity. If you get a no as an answer, remember next opportunity.
E.N.D. - Effort Never Dies. The end is not the end.

It changes the way you look at these words.

Don't give up on yourself.

Be a better Don Juan for yourself.

 

[NickAdams713]

How can you learn to detach yourself from the outcome, if you ain't talking to them

The first step is always the hardest
Happiness is work
Abundance is work

The more you invest and work it... the more it work and intelligently... the easier the system go.

I am a greedy... so I played a game with a PUA friend... I owe him 20$ for every girls he pointed that I didnt have the guts to talk to.... oh and he was the one choosing my pickup line.... such as: ''reject me the hardest way you can''

After a while you feel nothing... when you feel nothing suddenly your succes rate improve

Seduction is sales... in sales, you need to make the first step, you need to control your ''greedyness'' cause the prospect feel you are ''greedy (or for the quick money)'' he will back away.... than you notice is those who don't care about the money that make the most

Like Warren Buffet said : ''I never cared about my first million, I never cared about the money, cause I was going to be rich and i knew it... was just surprised how fast it came''.

I've posted about my failure here... and even a oneitis... funny when I knew I had another girl line up or 2... didn't care about losing the girl... but when I had only 1 girl.. oneitis

Actually, I dont consider losing a girl important... I see it has ''saving'' time

Amazing thread and post GlassGuy

You mean amazing post and thread by NickAdams713? This is my post, after all.