Guys, I don't agree with the 'fake it until you make it' principle, or any of the 'DJ techniques' that tell you to behave or act in a certain way.
Recently, there's been a lot of posts concerning how to maintain a relationship using 'DJ techniques', and how to attract women by being a 'true DJ'. Let's get serious here...
If you have to be someone you completely aren't, and rely on techniques and tricks (DJ principles) to get a girl, you're a chump.
Why go through all the effort of pretending, faking, and trying to be someone you aren't in order to get a broad? It's ridiculous. You shouldn't have to put yourself under wraps and suppress who you really are, in order for women to like you. To maintain a relationship with a women who THINKS you are somebody, but will find out that you are truly a totally different person - guys, it'd be difficult, and VERY ugly once she found out the truth. Because let's face it - all acts eventually unfold.
Think about it - wouldn't you be much more comfortable if you could truly know that you were loved for who you really were, and not just who you WANT her to think you are?
Save yourself the effort, and let yourself shine.
I'm not saying be a chump, because we are naturally NOT chumps, that's a fact. Society makes people chumps, and once again, being a chump isn't really 'you'.
I think that I'm a funny, interesting, and honest person, and that is what attracts women to me. I don't have to try to be a super-alpha male, or use mystery or challenge - when I get in a relationship, it's so much more satisfying and relaxing for me, because I know who the girl is, and she knows who I am.
The whole school of thought concerning "don't reveal yourself to a woman" (mystery) is pure, unadulterated crap. I talk to a certain girl constantly, and we never run out of conversation topics - I mean, we are usually talking for at least an hour a day. Does this make me a chump, for devoting so much time to a woman? Absolutely not, because I actually enjoy talking with her, and learning more about her. The real 'challenge' lies in being able to open up, and not be ashamed of yourself, and to not fear that your true self will frighten women away.
Everyone has their faults, and each of us has our strengths. That's the beauty of who we are - nobody is perfect, guys. So let's not pretend we are, or 'fake it until we make it'. Try actually talking about something related to relationships with a woman, or maybe use an "I feel" sentence for once. Just because you're a man doesn't mean that you're forbidden to actually have emotions.
This is just my mindset.
Have a great day.
Recently, there's been a lot of posts concerning how to maintain a relationship using 'DJ techniques', and how to attract women by being a 'true DJ'. Let's get serious here...
If you have to be someone you completely aren't, and rely on techniques and tricks (DJ principles) to get a girl, you're a chump.
Why go through all the effort of pretending, faking, and trying to be someone you aren't in order to get a broad? It's ridiculous. You shouldn't have to put yourself under wraps and suppress who you really are, in order for women to like you. To maintain a relationship with a women who THINKS you are somebody, but will find out that you are truly a totally different person - guys, it'd be difficult, and VERY ugly once she found out the truth. Because let's face it - all acts eventually unfold.
Think about it - wouldn't you be much more comfortable if you could truly know that you were loved for who you really were, and not just who you WANT her to think you are?
Save yourself the effort, and let yourself shine.
I'm not saying be a chump, because we are naturally NOT chumps, that's a fact. Society makes people chumps, and once again, being a chump isn't really 'you'.
I think that I'm a funny, interesting, and honest person, and that is what attracts women to me. I don't have to try to be a super-alpha male, or use mystery or challenge - when I get in a relationship, it's so much more satisfying and relaxing for me, because I know who the girl is, and she knows who I am.
The whole school of thought concerning "don't reveal yourself to a woman" (mystery) is pure, unadulterated crap. I talk to a certain girl constantly, and we never run out of conversation topics - I mean, we are usually talking for at least an hour a day. Does this make me a chump, for devoting so much time to a woman? Absolutely not, because I actually enjoy talking with her, and learning more about her. The real 'challenge' lies in being able to open up, and not be ashamed of yourself, and to not fear that your true self will frighten women away.
Everyone has their faults, and each of us has our strengths. That's the beauty of who we are - nobody is perfect, guys. So let's not pretend we are, or 'fake it until we make it'. Try actually talking about something related to relationships with a woman, or maybe use an "I feel" sentence for once. Just because you're a man doesn't mean that you're forbidden to actually have emotions.
This is just my mindset.
Have a great day.
