"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stop Doing So Much

JSH

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Sweet Post Duke

Sweet Post Duke.

It is rather amusing since after talking to you on AIM or some kind of instant messaging software, I ended up going off, sidetracked into the mASF community and learning things from them. You gave me a nice list of people to pay attention to and I did, its all working out for me.

It appears though that you were always a few steps ahead of me. We both came back here to the principle that several people tried to preach on here. That of self-improvement. I like your coke theory model. Is it yours?

Anyway

well done :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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