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Stop caring what she thinks

xavier_2000

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"When you renounce nature you find she takes an interest in you
When you renounce her a lil more she chases you
When you finally don’t care for her at all, she’s your slave"

Stop caring what she thinks of you or what she's thinking.

Stop tryna learn ********.

This complicated science degree language.

Think like a pre historic caveman.

I like woman with big tits.

Care about you and what you want.

"But oh no, how am I supposed to get her?"

Exactly.

At the root of every time you had a girl who liked you, I'm sure you noticed the shift in energy when you started to care what she thinks.

Subtly...

She didn't respond quite the same.

It's because your sub-communication shifted.

Girls pick up on sub-communication.

They don't care what you say.... it's how you say it.

How you say something is related to how you feel.

How you feel is related to your thoughts.

When you think about her responses and caring about it, you're thinking for 2 people lol.

Everything you say is muted out by your subconscious communication.

In Sales...

When you don't care about what the prospect thinks...

You start to not be bothered by the prospect being hesitant or skeptical

You start to present your solution in a confident self assured way

You don't look needy so you build more trust super fast.

Resistance goes down. Respect is automatic. They're not controlling the call because they have no power over you.

Since you no longer have to be this super psychologist, brain power is used to focus on the moment.

You start to listen better.

You start to be able to disqualify the bad prospects and save your time.

Prove me wrong.
 
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xavier_2000

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Mode One is a great book that illustrates this further.

Have any of you told a girl you wanted to have sex with them within first 5 minutes of meeting them?

Did you get slapped?

No.

We're taught to repress ourselves and care about what she thinks.

This leads to problems with holding frame and communication.

At the root of our behaviour is what we care about.

Frame and communication is how we express our sexuality.

When that is stifled...

Your ability to get girls diminishes.
 
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"When you renounce nature you find she takes an interest in you
When you renounce her a lil more she chases you
When you finally don’t care for her at all, she’s your slave"

Stop caring what she thinks of you or what she's thinking.

Stop tryna learn ********.

This complicated science degree language.

Think like a pre historic caveman.

I like woman with big tits.

Care about you and what you want.

"But oh no, how am I supposed to get her?"

Exactly.

At the root of every time you had a girl who liked you, I'm sure you noticed the shift in energy when you started to care what she thinks.

Subtly...

She didn't respond quite the same.

It's because your sub-communication shifted.

Girls pick up on sub-communication.

They don't care what you say.... it's how you say it.

How you say something is related to how you feel.

How you feel is related to your thoughts.

When you think about her responses and caring about it, you're thinking for 2 people lol.

Everything you say is muted out by your subconscious communication.

In Sales...

When you don't care about what the prospect thinks...

You start to not be bothered by the prospect being unqualified

You start to present your solution in a confident self assured way

You don't look needy so you build more trust super fast.

Resistance goes down. Respect is automatic. They're not controlling the call because they have no power over you.

Since you no longer have to be this super psychologist, brain power is used to focus on the moment.

You start to listen better.

You start to be able to disqualify the bad prospects and save your time.

Prove me wrong.
Also....

Your gonna get girls be like "I don't do this normally" "you have to take me out on dates" "Your an *******" "You like to use women"

Again.. They're testing you.

Do you give a F like these other simps or do you assert your truth?
 

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"When you renounce nature you find she takes an interest in you
When you renounce her a lil more she chases you
When you finally don’t care for her at all, she’s your slave"

Stop caring what she thinks of you or what she's thinking.

Stop tryna learn ********.

This complicated science degree language.

Think like a pre historic caveman.

I like woman with big tits.

Care about you and what you want.

"But oh no, how am I supposed to get her?"

Exactly.

At the root of every time you had a girl who liked you, I'm sure you noticed the shift in energy when you started to care what she thinks.

Subtly...

She didn't respond quite the same.

It's because your sub-communication shifted.

Girls pick up on sub-communication.

They don't care what you say.... it's how you say it.

How you say something is related to how you feel.

How you feel is related to your thoughts.

When you think about her responses and caring about it, you're thinking for 2 people lol.

Everything you say is muted out by your subconscious communication.

In Sales...

When you don't care about what the prospect thinks...

You start to not be bothered by the prospect being hesitant or skeptical

You start to present your solution in a confident self assured way

You don't look needy so you build more trust super fast.

Resistance goes down. Respect is automatic. They're not controlling the call because they have no power over you.

Since you no longer have to be this super psychologist, brain power is used to focus on the moment.

You start to listen better.

You start to be able to disqualify the bad prospects and save your time.

Prove me wrong.
Easily proven wrong since I was in sales for many years. If I didn’t care at all I sold nothing because I didn’t care
 

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I'll raise the bar even lower. Did you ever make more than 400K/year in Sales?
 

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But you were in sales for so many years? If you did not care at all you would not have sold anything. Do you get it now? ;)
 

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But you were in sales for so many years? If you did not care at all you would not have sold anything. Do you get it now? ;)
That’s exactly my point. Yet YOU are the one saying that if you don’t care you will sell. It’s not true
 

xavier_2000

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Dude you're in your 30s yet you can't see this? lmao
 

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What's that J Cole quote again?

she don't wanna be saved
 

xavier_2000

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I never said don't care.

I said don't care about what she thinks.

Don't care about what the prospect thinks.

There is a difference lol.
 
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