"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stop being a pvssy and MAN UP!

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I've just had a brillant breakthrough today. I've learned that when you are in doubt, and the gut tells you to do something, to LISTEN TO UR INNER SELF talking. Do not pass up this oppurtunity becuz u will regret it minutes later kicking urself saying " Why the fvck didn't I do it??!!"

Today I was chillen with this chick I was gaming for the second time. The first time I didn't kiss her and this time I did. I wasn't gonna be a pvssy this tme around. She has a jealous ex bf who always stalks her n **** so she was telling me some things he does when he is jealous. When we were walking home I asked her, " What would he do if he saw me doing this..." I stopped her midsentence and I hooked up with her for a good minute and she was like "oh he would be extremely jealous..why didn't u just wait til we got home!!! we're in the middle of the road!! lol"
and we made out for a little bit at her crib.
All I'm trying to say to the guys who just can't approach or just can't kiss the girl is to MAN UP becuz if u don't do it, u will regret it the day after. Who cares if she moves away. who cares if she backs away, who cares if she rejects u. at least u gave it ur all and know that u can stop wasting time with her!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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good job man

honestly who cares about some jealous ex. i can't stand when girls bring this stuff up. who cares how jealous so and so would be, they are not here right now, they don't matter.

i guess girls just don't like it when people hate them but they really shouldn't care so much
 
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I would just say watch out if there is a jealous stalker ex-bf...it could mean you're 'rebound-man'...then you're always being compared to him....which gets old. Good job though.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sexy_kuta

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PrinceBeavis said:
I would just say watch out if there is a jealous stalker ex-bf...it could mean you're 'rebound-man'...then you're always being compared to him....which gets old. Good job though.
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Good job.

Be prepared for the confrontation, though. I had a jealous ex pound on my door this afternoon, telling me that I had better make my gf watch her kid tomorrow so that he could go to some job interview. I just rolled my eyes at him, and leaned against the door, told him I understood and I would try to help him. Her last bf just punched this guy every time he came around, but now he is in jail for battery. He outweighs me by 100 pounds, but I'm *so* not scared of him that it comes though in my actions. He lost all of his anger right away and walked away apologizing to me. It does not take violence to solve your confrontations, and this is coming from a guy who is training mma to cage fight. Your calm, cool, and collected head is your best weapon if that guy ever confronts you.
 
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Hahahaha, BEST ADVICE EVER!

Seriously, all this stupid sh*t about "letting her make the moves" is only going to make you a virgin on your deathbed. This is what people on this forum should be hearing. Bravo.
 
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