"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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STOP BEING A NICE GUY AND AVOID THESE MISTAKES (INFIELD BREAKDOWN VIDEO)

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You came off as low value from the simple fact that you had so much time to talk. A high value man has somewhere to be.
"Oh wow" and "Really" are the least low value aspect of this approach. Don't worry about that. And don't worry about sounding too nice.

The approach was very incongruent. You look like a confident guy. You started off well. You made some bold moves. But at the same time you talked too much and for too long. Women and people in general can sense incongruence. They were probably waiting for you to demonstrate the value that they expected from you and gave up when they realized it wasn't happening.

The best point to end the interaction was at around 45 secs. The rest could have been cut out without consequence.

Groups are good to approach because the women will be more comfortable talking to you near the safety of their friends.
Groups are terrible because those friends have a lot of influence on how you will be perceived after the interaction.

Also getting a girl's instagram will only work in your favor if your page displays high value. I'm sure there are other ways she could have you contact her but didn't want you to.


BUT none of this really matters. She either likes you or not. You'll only know for sure when you sleep with her.

Good job either way.
 
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