"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey guys,why dosent it suprise me that girls will stoop to lows like these?

after a somewhat lengthy attraction to a girl,had everything going IOI's,rapport,flirting etc etc..she'd let me give her back rubs,stayed at my place and all else..

i told her how i felt,and got rejected big time

a week later,she is hanging out with a new guy who likes her,and she is giving him all the signs she gave me..

now a week after she rejected me,i get this **** test

im on msn,and we havent really spoken in a good convo since she rejected me...and out of the blue she starts this convo

her:what does it mean when a guy says "its ok if i dont get you,i have reserves.."

me:he likes you but can get other girls

her:eek:h thats ok,got it now

and i closed the convo,how low will they go?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She schooled you. Plain and simple. The guy she was talking about? He probably nailed her.

It ain't low, it's just business.

Don't tell women how you feel, show them.
 

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ha,she did say she met up with him on the weekend for drinks at his house with a few others,and in "casual" convo,she decides to tell me he gave her a hickey

how pathetic, i played it all aloof,and she is trying to get my attention again,sending my myspace comments saying how hers are better than the rest,and i didnt reply and she starts talking on msn lol
 

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From now on, no attention is given to this girl. She can't act "pathetic" if you don't even give her a chance to speak in the first place. Cut attention wh0res off at the knees. I'll re-illiterate, don't tell women how you feel, show them. Otherwise, you might as well hand her a big 'ol plateful of power and control.

Also, if a girl stays at your place in those circumstances, it's your duty to bang her.

Keep brushing up on the DJ knowledge as well. The Bible is your friend.
 

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Why are you still talking to her? Because you want to bang her. She knows that and is seeing how much she can get away with before you walk away. She's laughing at you everytime you speak to her.

Don't give her any time? If she asks why, just say "Because I'm not interested in kids that play games." and walk away.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She's a hairworm, get rid of her before you suicidally plunge into a pond!
 

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you guys are right,i'll play it like i did tonight,with little care..

the **** thing is,she is a mild one-itis for me,and she can get to me sub-conciously,and id still love to fvck her big time,if i did back off and she started inviting me to hang out with her and her friends again,and started the flirty,hitting on the arm "give me back rubs" stuff,what do i do then? most likely it'd be her trying to own me again,but what if she rejected me and regretted it?

where will i know that it isnt her playing games,and she is GENUINELY
interested?
 

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ye yeah said:
you guys are right,i'll play it like i did tonight,with little care..

the **** thing is,she is a mild one-itis for me,and she can get to me sub-conciously,and id still love to fvck her big time,if i did back off and she started inviting me to hang out with her and her friends again,and started the flirty,hitting on the arm "give me back rubs" stuff,what do i do then? most likely it'd be her trying to own me again,but what if she rejected me and regretted it?

where will i know that it isnt her playing games,and she is GENUINELY
interested?
Oh dude, zip it.

She is playing you big time, and you are falling into it even worse. Now listen to that, and take it on board. Take the measures to get this person out of your life immediately.

There are women out there worth having. She is not one of them.

All contact ends with her right now. There shouldn't even be an opportunity for her to flirt with you if she isn't in your life. Kick her to the fvcking curb man.

And move on :up:
 

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your right killacam, get this... lol

i looked on her myspace before casually, and a friend had left her a comment saying...

"HEY!!

So you LOVE *******
and those hickeys were from him hehe
so yous are gonna go on a date how cute :)"

and ******* is her ex ex bf,she ditched me to hang out with,and i know for a fact that they arent gonna date or anything,so i checked out the friend's myspace and there was no comment from the girl you told me to forget,so that means she has told her friend to comment her,and im guessing trying to get at me? im suspecting the worse,but dont know why they would reject you then try make you jealous :S
 

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ye yeah said:
your right killacam, get this... lol

i looked on her myspace before casually, and a friend had left her a comment saying...

"HEY!!

So you LOVE *******
and those hickeys were from him hehe
so yous are gonna go on a date how cute :)"

and ******* is her ex ex bf,she ditched me to hang out with,and i know for a fact that they arent gonna date or anything,so i checked out the friend's myspace and there was no comment from the girl you told me to forget,so that means she has told her friend to comment her,and im guessing trying to get at me? im suspecting the worse,but dont know why they would reject you then try make you jealous :S
You don't know anything for a fact with this girl. Infact, you shouldn't know anything. She is gone, done, zip, outta here.

Some women are evil. Others play guys because of their own issues, IE self-esteem. Either way, the women that fit into this category are women who do not fit into your life.

Not everyone is rosey, nice and caring. Now, no more suspecting, no more thinking, and no more contemplating. Done? Done.

DJ Bible link at the bottom of the page. It's one of the best mates you can have, sit down, have a beer and read it. Study and learn it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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