You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Tell her that it's HER TURN to schedule the date or lunch but you have to do it in a C%F way or she'll think your AFC/SHY. Wtf... on your terms? He already did that and every date should be on YOUR TERMS... sigh... newbs.whiskerbiskit said:my date had to cancel our initial lunch date due to unexpected clients cutting into her lunch hour. she was apologetic and eager for rescheduling.
what is the appropriate response from a seasoned dj?
wb
This is true, if a woman is interested, truly sorry (and available) she will give a counter offer.The_Unit said:if she does look forward to the date, she'll call back, with suggestions of times. ..
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is going to warp your mind, whiskerbiskit...whiskerbiskit said:outside of the clubs where are some other good places you can pick up women? *especially* if you're a thirtysomething.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.