"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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kevin18

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Hi,

This site is great for self improuvement, I got more girls in 1 month that in my last year! I have a little problem now. I met an hb8.5 and used the ****y and funny on her, a lot of kino and she respond well, she started to laugh and talk horny…She invited me to dance she’s going there with her friends. The question is should I go there with my friends? I know that DJ should never be jealous but I am so afraid that she get more attracted by my friend. I am not ugly but I have to admit that my friend is more attractive. Anyway I know it seems stupid but I need some advice here, does it happen often to get your girl stolen?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Freeman

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Originally posted by kevin18
Hi,

This site is great for self improuvement, I got more girls in 1 month that in my last year! I have a little problem now. I met an hb8.5 and used the ****y and funny on her, a lot of kino and she respond well, she started to laugh and talk horny…She invited me to dance she’s going there with her friends. The question is should I go there with my friends? I know that DJ should never be jealous but I am so afraid that she get more attracted by my friend. I am not ugly but I have to admit that my friend is more attractive. Anyway I know it seems stupid but I need some advice here, does it happen often to get your girl stolen?

It happens-but dont let your insecurities about your friend looking better than you prevent you from having fun...
 

milkman

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Originally posted by kevin18
Hi,

This site is great for self improuvement, I got more girls in 1 month that in my last year! I have a little problem now. I met an hb8.5 and used the ****y and funny on her, a lot of kino and she respond well, she started to laugh and talk horny…She invited me to dance she’s going there with her friends. The question is should I go there with my friends? I know that DJ should never be jealous but I am so afraid that she get more attracted by my friend. I am not ugly but I have to admit that my friend is more attractive. Anyway I know it seems stupid but I need some advice here, does it happen often to get your girl stolen?
Congratulations for getting started. :D

Seems to be a better idea that you arrange something only for the two of you instead of going out with your and her friends.

For the beginning try to arrange something where you can be relaxed and where you have the less concerns about anything.

Tell her that you probably will have no time at this evening, but it would be great that both of you could do something together on another day. If possible try to arrange something before this dance day.

If everything is going fine and you make out with her and it´s clear that you like each other, then you can join the dance event with everyone. Noone will then be able to steal here away and you can be more relaxed.


Good luck. ;)
 
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