"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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still struggling even when I think I am a Don Juan.want advice!!

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Damn! I am a Don Juan. Almost every girl wants me. But still, that girl is always making me angry although I am playing it really cool. I have to admit that that one has got stuck in my head. And that girl is only 21.

Man, she is always trying to think how to make me jealous and angry. That always happens at my working place. There is a guy trying to use every tactics to get that girl. And that girl wants me at first but I didn’t go to next level because I have told everyone that I have a girlfriend. That’s my mistake. Anyway, that other guy is also a married guy. But he is still flirting with that girl. And she seems she want to use that guy. So she lets him flirt with her. I just simply stay back and relax.

But she is still trying to flirt with me every time she has a chance. And she is always making me jealous when she isn’t so happy talking with me and is making me angry by disturbing my work. I just feel stressed sometimes cause this seems like it would never end.

And another one problem is that that married guy is always trying to block me talking with women, all women at work. He plays as nice guy sometimes like buying food, trying to impress girls, helping their works but he has got some humor. I mean not only that girl he is trying to get but to all women at work. And he obviously shows women that he doesn’t like when they talk with me. Those women actually hesitate to talk with me in front of him. They comfortably flirt with me, even fight each other over me when he is not around but not in front of him. Guys , this is really annoying. When he is around, I hardy get a little chance to talk with women cause they won’t talk back. That guy is not getting any girl too.

I am still calm and relax because I know that I am still a great catch. But with the situation like this, I feel really annoying because I can’t talk comfortably when he is around. He will try to block me every time I talk and girls afraid of him for some reasons, may be because he is helping their works they can’t handle or buying food, I don’t know for sure,you guess. You have any idea what to do in this situation?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Espi said:
A true Don Juaner, in my opinion, doesn't ultimately define himself as being attractive to all women.
Thanks for your reply. That what you said is new for me. I agree that. I guess I still need more experience to be a true Don Juan. Your advice is priceless for me.
I think I am having some pleasures after using these techniques from this website. But I need to be smarter.
 
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