Still spinning plates cause I know I'm developing oneitis

[Poonani Maker]

I'm starting to think about the girl I've fvcked for the past 3 weeks as more than just another one I've fvcked. I can't stop thinking about her, but at the same time, I'm priming at least 2 others for this Friday/Saturday. I KNOW that these 2 others could never do me the way she does, but if she's found another lover, then at least I'll be ready to fall onto these other t!ts. Remains to be seen, but I've got a sinking feeling that she will not want to do anything with me this weekend. I know that another dude has crept into her life (she told me, but she always says negative things about him obviously - I just keep my mouth shut and don't badmouth the guy as I don't know him, but I have a sneaking feeling that he's saying sh!t about me even though he doesn't know me). She told me that he doesn't like that she still sees me. I was ho-hum. I don't really care either way was my reaction to that. It's her decision. I have other girls but I thought that our sex was Unbelievable and that she couldn't have felt more attached to me now. Remains to be seen. We'll have to see. She's NEVER said a bad thing to me, never criticized me, always asks me to call/text her.

I haven't been this consumed by a Single girl in a while. It eats up my thinking everyday I am away from her, even though I'm still meeting new girls everyday.

If people saw/talked with her, they'd wonder Why I'd be so attached to her cause she's not beautiful or without baggage (2 kids), she's not educated at all, but it's her SEX, the most satisfying sex I've ever endured in my lifetime. We go for hours, and I can do practically anything to her. My fingers have been anywhere in or on her body. My mouth almost has.

 

[f283000]

Brother snap out of it! I can't believe what i'm reading. The great poonani maker, the slayer of POF getting oneitis?

This is truly a sad development

 

[Poonani Maker]

the slayer of POF getting oneitis?

This is truly a sad development

And okcupid now

 

[corrector]

My fingers have been anywhere in or on her body. My mouth almost has.

That's your problem there. Maybe if you give her a rim-job you'll lose your oneitis.

 

[sexysuave]

haha, this is funny.

Start spinning plates man!! I may be biased now because of an experience with a BPD chick, but read up some of the symptoms, could she be one? The reason I'm saying this is that I also have absolutely ridiculous sex and it's just too damn awesome. Also, when you said that she's never said anythign bad or criticise and this and that, usually BPD chicks mimic your "soulmate" so they seem to be doing everything right at the beginning. Blahh, I could be just paranoid about it, but it's defnitely somethign I'll be looking at anytime I start hearing about some of the symptoms.

But yeah dude, do not get attached to this chick, keep pounding her, but leave it at that man, dont' talk to her other than when you meet up to screw, and live your life and just keep her as a fvck buddy and that's all. I also have a feelign that this chick has some issues, but as good of sex as you're getting, I'd keep it on the side just for the sex lol, not gonna lie. But DO NOT maintain a relationship (in other words, dont' text or talk to her all day when you don't see her, and don't see her more than once or twice a week max, and JUST for sex, make that clear with your actions first, and usually you won't have to explain. But if it comes down to it, do NOT be afraid to explain that you DO NOT want a relationship with her. I have had to do this a few times with different girls, just be careful, if you keep screwing her for a few months, she may try to bring up the relationship talk again. LOL I've had this happen as well... you have to be strong again and tell her "I've already addressed this with you at the very beginning. You and I will NEVER be in a relationship. We're never gonna be a couple. We're never gonna be married. If you still want to keep seeing me knowing these facts, that would be awesome, but I need you to understand this." Well that worked pretty well for me and a couple of girls that I have had these second discussions with I still have in my phone book and still can call anytime I want for sex if I choose to do so. I have had them contact me even when they had boyfriends and what not and they were still willing to "meet up" with me somewhere at a hotel or something. It's quite amazing, and also kinda sad 'cause I think that's really fvcking us all up when it comes to our own relationships LOL. You see and do so much ish that you start looking at things differently, but oh well, that's a whole different subject). Once again, I would HIGHLY advise against getting into a "relationship" with this girl. At least not for a few months until you kinda know her a bit more, but chances are, you are just gonna want to keep this as a fvck buddy. But you make sure you do your job and fvck the sh*t outta that girl!!! lol that way she'll want to keep you around as a fvck buddy and you get to get you some of that good sex whenever you want!! Rock her damn world man!

 

[In2theGame]

lol it happens

 

[Korrupt]

Uh oh.. Those OkCupid chicks are crazy! I'm feeling a little bit of oneitis myself with a chick I met from that site. Haven't even had sex with her (looong story), but the times we've been together, the connection, attraction, sexual chemistry and passion is off the f*cking charts. Sparks fly and it's like nothing else matters. Even though I'm seeing and have had sex with several other girls, I still can't get her outta my mind! Just like you, I'm not sure if I'll see her again. Guess we just have to let time sort things out..

 

[Poonani Maker]

Remains to be seen, but I've got a sinking feeling that she will not want to do anything with me this weekend. I know that another dude has crept into her life (she told me, but she always says negative things about him obviously - I just keep my mouth shut and don't badmouth the guy as I don't know him, but I have a sneaking feeling that he's saying sh!t about me even though he doesn't know me).

Well, it turns out, my sinking feeling was unfounded. I fvcked her again last night for the 4th straight week. She's about ready to drop this new guy saying that he's "too sensitive." She likes the fact that I don't give a sh!t and don't smother her and want to be with her all the time. I kept filling in the blanks for her. That he's probably never had a real job. I know I shouldn't have bad-mouthed him but she just confirmed my suspicions of him last week, that he was just a chump afc whiner, whom she didn't give herself up for, who she just used him for. Better him than me, heh.

Well, we fvcked all night long and took breaks talking and messing with her possessed cat (it would get up on the bed and cling to my chest keeping us from getting closer - it was between me and her so she locked her in the bathroom, her computer (I had her download some movies I thought she should see for keeping a healthy mindset cause she's been depressed with taking care of her baby and various other problems from the landlady and having to move soon - but when she moves, she's moving closer to me I think etc etc).

I'll report. I'll probably be getting with another tonight, but I know I should be with her again, but you know...I need a thicker girl at the moment. It's been nice with her petite as5, but I need variety now. I could never get married.