"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ZenGodMod

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with women's bull.

Men think even around this age they have the verbal stamina to match women.

what a load of vomit. i read post to post of guys constantly willing to engage in verbal warfare with women thinking somehow they will win the day.

worst is the ones fighting against feminist.

if you enter into her zone, of which she is master of her trade of battle you'll be truely be beaten.

this doesn't mean you openly accept defeat. it means you are of aware of the forth coming result and now will be prepared.

like in politics, in combat and in business know how the battle will play out.

if the woman is trying to lead you into an arguement or discussion about a subject of her choice. she already has a "goal", a "tactic" and reserved enough energy for her pending victory. if you are skilled in verbal warfare then the result is you achieving to upset and vex her.

do not ever get into a verbal warfare with women.

however there are much better alternatives and less harmfull ones.

i have for the last decade a studied rare form of martial art. my master used to constantly remind me that direct attacks is like hitting walls. that beat downs only create resentment. one must learn to make other submit. he reminds me that the physical submission of an opponent is shameful. the joke was i was learning not to get into physical combat. to win before hand and to lead the battle in the direction i choose. which is much harder the using a submission hold.

i learnt out of experience there is a few affect methods to win.

it was not to win.

when you sense a girl is pulling a move on you. this is what you can do:

if its a subject you versed in. then get straight to the put. state what you believe and shut up. she will want to chisel away at your beliefs. don't

use silence. it sounds uncool but it works. silence unnerves everyone and i use it all the time at work. it show you not willing to entertained by manipulation or waste your energy.

state to her clearly her loses if she persues the arguement.
"i love you. but if that is the case i'll pack tonight as clearly you don't love me as much i do you" and do pack. she will call out you on it as to her its a threat she has used before and didn't mean.

let her state her case in full and avoid interrupting her even if what you hearing sounds bad. don't react. after she completes her statement. give her a one sentence response and be on you way doing other things. don't let the subject be brought up again. use you have reviewed it.

don't submit even when her face is sad. she really don't like it she can leave. be willing to let go. its better then agreeing to something you can't live with.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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this was rushed. i have a schedule to keep at the moment.
 

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careful she will not engage you publicly unless she has the support of the crowd which is usually female crowd. private argues are not even safe and public ones she'll play the victim and you will still lose if you engage.

general rule, don't engage in the play of words.
 

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ZenGodMod said:
careful she will not engage you publicly unless she has the support of the crowd which is usually female crowd. private argues are not even safe and public ones she'll play the victim and you will still lose if you engage.

general rule, don't engage in the play of words.
I agree. The less you say the better off you are. Actions not words. Ever notice how any female friend of yours who complains about a jerk, complains about how he stopped talking to her, or how she was winning an argument and just walked away? He knows he can't win with words, so leaving is the only option.

The problem these days, is that women have been trained to never admit they are wrong. They will argue till the end.
 

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Warrior74 said:
Ever notice how any female friend of yours who complains about a jerk, complains about how he stopped talking to her, or how she was winning an argument and just walked away?

The problem these days, is that women have been trained to never admit they are wrong. They will argue till the end.
I agree this is a growing problem in the dating world, especially with women on the higher eschelon of looks. They grow used to getting what they want whenever they want and rarely taking no for an answer. All the more reason to include the spoiled brat classification within your qualification process.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I "argue" with women like I would with kids. Mostly exaggerating random things & making sh!t up to amuse myself and confuse them. If I can't think of anything amusing, I just walk away to get a drink and switch topic.

There's nothing to be gained from taking women seriously in any debate.
 

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I'm pretty good at arguing if I'm clear-headed, but engaging in a battle of words with a woman is usually a fruitless endeavor. Like you said, this is their trade and you will tire of bickering long before they do. Plus they will remember every word you said for the rest of your natural life and twist what you say to make you the bad guy. Half the time I cant even remember what I said yesterday, let alone two months ago.

I have no qualms about slamming a woman, however. If it's true, then sometimes I just call it.
 
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