"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Still in touch with an Ex

TheManOfSteel

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Jeez man, what exactly is there to talk about? You've let her know what's up and now it seems like she just wants to try to explain it to you in a way that justifies her actions. I wouldn't waste anymore time with her. As Bible Belt stated, start looking for other options.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Its your way or the highway. You have to be like this if YOU want to be happy. Don't let somem girl drag you down. What she is doing is messed up and if I were you I would have just broke up with her: None of that talking BS.
 

Johnnyventana

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Sorry, but she loves him. And if you make it a big deal, all you will do is push them closer together. It's human nature. And it's a losing proposition. So that angle ain't no good.

I would seriously go the subtle jealously way. Make her "go there.' Make her talk about your 'friend.' Not you talking about hers. Then you win. Subtle is the key. Don't give her an excuse to jump ship.
 

The_411

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You know what's going to happen with this "talk" don't you? I'm asking because if you don't you're going walk right into an ambush.

She's either going to give your the break up talk or she's going to try to shame you into believing you are controlling possessive etc at which point if you agree she'll lose her remaining respect for you and likely cheat on you if she hasn't already.

[nerd on] This is like Kobayashi Maru [/nerd off] except you know the winning move now which is to dump her pre-emptively and avoid the unwinnable scenario
 
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