"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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still fresh, why delete threads though

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ethnomethodologist

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to da moderators. Do you keep a list of recently deleted and moved threads?

I would like to know who deleted "To Enthomethodologist" I have a few questions for him/her about internet etiquette. Thanks in advance for the help, and hope to hear from you soon.

Jay
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sorry, to the moderators.

I hope that elicits a faster response. I am really curious, sorry for seeming so calm about it, it's really tough not exploding about it again. I'll tell you in private, twice in a row fate had me not respond, so I guess I just have to wait to say what I have to say.
 

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A PM works much more effectively then wasting a spot on the forum for it. It's like those ban threads, they notice them, but have you seen a mod respond to them without locking it, (and now we're talking 5 days)?

A PM will usually give you contact within a day if you're polite about it.

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Threads are moved locked or deleted in compliance with the forum rules.

Generally, a thread is locked either because it violates forum rules, is not appropiate or it has become bad for the general health and well-being of the forum.

It sounds like the post you are referring to could have been sent to you as a private PM. If you have any other questions about posts and posting feel free to PM a Moderator or Admin.
 
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