"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Still Confident, But In Way Over My Head

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Pimp-sicle

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ABCD:

Ok kid, you think you've got things all figured out and your not stressin over this chick right? Then WTF are you doing posting over analytical bullshiat for? Look if you had things "all figured out" then there would be no need to post about this girl. You don't meet a girl and say and play out how things are going to be. Just because you hooked up with your ex within 5 minutes of meeting her doesn't mean anything about her, good or bad.

I think if you come on this board with this piss/poor "I'm better than everyone else" attitude then you can figure things out for yourself. And I'd LOVE to hear how you and Mrs. ABCD are doing..



PIMP-come out to So Cal and I'll show you
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whatever you do, you don't make the BIG mistake that most guys make in this situation.

And that is, to stop putting the moves on her so you can show her you are interested in some "meaningful" relationship with her.

Nothing turns a girl off faster and loses her faster than turning yourself into a non-sexual man.

She rebuffed your first advances but she sure as sh1t didn't say "Quit trying. I only like guys that don't get hard-ons."

Keep doing what has worked to date.
 
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