Still can't do it... help fast btw

[Credos]

My last post i talked about this girl who i think likes me,

But I cant convince myself to just go over and say hi, when she walked by today, the only thing i was thinking was"YOURE FREEZING, don't FREEZE... S*** you dumbass... you froze "

Can anybody just help me get my stuff togheter so that tomorow I won't freeze

need some fast help
thanks mates :rockon:

 

[Dustin]

Like ive said in earlier posts it the different between being a man and being a man with balls. A man can talk to any girls hands down but a man with balls can pick up anygirls they want. The man can talk to girls but won't indeed come them. The man with balls will. All you gotta do is write a game plan tonight on what your gonna do, some ice breakers, good conversation materials all that fun stuff. Once you do that visualize it in your mind. Sorta like when I'm playing basketball I visualize the shot going in and 9 times out of 10 it will go in. Now go out and remember you on live life once.

 

[TheManlyMan]

Dustin is right on with it. Visualization is key. I visualize my opponent reacting a certain way to a punch, I test it. If my opponent reacts the way I visualized, then I complete my visualization with the response I had pre-meditated. Speaking with anyone works in the same way. You need to come up with some ice breakers and pre-meditate clever responses just incase you need to come off quick witted, but in reality you're just prepared.

Don't force it or it'll come off wierd. Walk up to her naturally from an angle. If you walk up to her directly it is far too confrontational, from behind is too much like a stalker; get a good angle of approach with a good ice breaker and a wingman. The wingman doesn't have to know a thing, but he/she could be there as a fall back on the conversation as you gather your thoughts if you get stuck.

 

[Docs]

How the hell is it so hard to say hi? It's a two letter word, a breath to say it. In your 80 or so years of life, this one second to say hi...what's it worth to you?

Say Hi.

 

[Ace of Flames]

its times like these where i look up to Nike.

just do it. thats truely the best advice we can give here. like today, this girl gave me a hug and she didnt let go. she was smelling my cologne, and i just stayed holding her. in my head, the idea of a slow dance popped up, and i was like, wtf? but then i just said, without thinking, "hey, wanna dance?", and i started rocking her back and forth. i spinned her around and she was loving it.

just do it. just do it dude.

 

[Docs]

Originally posted by Ace of Flames
its times like these where i look up to Nike.

just do it. thats truely the best advice we can give here. like today, this girl gave me a hug and she didnt let go. she was smelling my cologne, and i just stayed holding her. in my head, the idea of a slow dance popped up, and i was like, wtf? but then i just said, without thinking, "hey, wanna dance?", and i started rocking her back and forth. i spinned her around and she was loving it.

just do it. just do it dude.

Natural thought, natural response. Good job.