"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don Juan
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I went out with a girl who had just broken up with her boyfriend (while she was with him i had sex with her). Well she had this trip planned with him and his family before they broke up. So the trip was comming up and she decided to get back with him. i still want to pursue her for a summer hookup at least. how do i handle this. Should i txt her with something like when you get back gimme a call we'll do something, or how should i handle this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why do you want to get with someone that seemed to have left the boyfriend for you, then went back to him?

You can do better.
 

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true, i was just seeing it as a hookup perspective, since its quite possible that she only got back with him for the trip
 
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