"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Grover_mister

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well you know how everyone has that girl of there dreams well i met mine. I was flirthing with her at my friends GF's 8th grade grad. well im hititng on this girl and am getting osme feedback and i proceed to say," So are you a junior or senior" she goes," Are you kidding i am going to be in 8th grade i just turned 14" now im 16 and just got my license on friday


she is so hot what should i do??!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oakraiderz2

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Step 1: Take 13 yr old off pedestal.
Step 2: Think of consequences, pros and cons if hook uo with 13 yr old.
Step 3: Make a choice
 

theunflushables

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Deffinetly not a good idea. Remember, her parents probably won't allow it, and remember in most states that could be considered stauatory rape if you try something. And a lot of times there doesnt even have to be sufficent proof, just a worried parent. I would stay clear. You'll find your one many times so, which kind of make the idea of the one null and void.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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You say she's hot? Then, HIT THAT SH!T BEFORE THE HAIR DOES
 

Grover_mister

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THAT ****ING *****


omg what a *****


she is a vbikings fan anyway


how can u go wrong with Brett Favre!!!



****ing ***** thinks im ugly **** man im out
 

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Im your age too. These girls are lookin better and better when they're younger (compared to how it used to be). It's probably the hormones and crap in milk and everything. But either way. At least that's the case in public school.

I have been getting so many damn mixed responses from people. some say the grade difference is too big, but this older friend told me two years really aint that bad. think about it. how many people do you know have only two years difference? I respect my older friend's advice more than some other people like "u shouldnt even look at 8th graders" that makes u homo then, cuz i've seen so many juniors with freshmen.

too bad the 8th graduations are all done with. i overthought the situation about the age difference. the biggest disappointment is when i was in 8th grade i didnt know **** about girls. in fact all of middle school sucked. that was when my confidence really dropped for some reason.

if she's only 13, then yeah the 3 years difference leads to a harsher sentence in most states.
 
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